r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is a subreddit with 51k members. The community frequently discusses dating, lesbian, advice, relationships, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic and perfumes, and the most common flair used is need advice, dating, other, general life stuff, and entertainment.
We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd.
We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.
Popular Topics in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
Dating
80 posts
#2
Lesbian
38 posts
#3
Advice
28 posts
#4
Relationships
26 posts
#5
Struggling
26 posts
#6
Relationship
25 posts
#7
Lesbians
24 posts
#8
Hard Time
20 posts
#9
Love
19 posts
#10
Breakup
16 posts
Products Discussed in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Flair Used in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
need advice
: "What’s up with Her? For real."
24 posts
#2
dating
: "Lol so bizarre"
15 posts
#3
Other
: "Just a silly little comic!"
13 posts
#4
general life stuff
: "Got this note in our mailbox yesterday."
11 posts
#5
entertainment
: "THAT IS THE ONLY LOGICAL EXPLANATION"
8 posts
#6
social issues
: "Why would you do this lol"
4 posts
#7
lesbians in the news
: "My favorite Olympic gymnast came out 💗"
2 posts
#8
homophobia (TW)
: "Younger lesbians not understanding the histories of older lesbians"
2 posts
#9
marriage
: "Girlfriend finally proposed!!"
2 posts
#10
family
: "Being childfree"
1 post
Member Growth in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Yearly
+18k members(52.9%)
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Last updated: June 30, 2026