r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is a subreddit with 56k members. The community frequently discusses dating, lesbian, advice, relationships, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic and perfumes, and the most common flair used is dating, need advice, general conversation, general life stuff, and lesbians in the news.
We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd.
We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.
Popular Topics in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
Dating
80 posts
#2
Lesbian
38 posts
#3
Advice
28 posts
#4
Relationships
26 posts
#5
Struggling
26 posts
#6
Relationship
25 posts
#7
Lesbians
24 posts
#8
Hard Time
20 posts
#9
Love
19 posts
#10
Breakup
16 posts
Products Discussed in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Flair Used in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
dating
: "I didn't realize being allergic to animals would limit my dating pool this much"
35 posts
#2
need advice
: "Broken-up due to (bio) child wish.."
26 posts
#3
general conversation
: "A little Totoro forest, completely hand-embroidered by me. 🌿🍄❤️"
12 posts
#4
general life stuff
: "Is there any other lesbians here that dont really care for marriage?"
9 posts
#5
lesbians in the news
: "Lesbian Bar Project Co-Founder: Purity Politics Could Destroy Our Remaining Spaces"
3 posts
#6
social issues
: "If you like someone you cant have 100% leave"
3 posts
#7
entertainment
: "Howdy yall"
3 posts
#8
Other
: "Lesbian woman dating a bi woman — is being compared to men like this normal, or am I justified in being upset and uncomfortable with it?"
2 posts
#9
marriage
: "Time machine available?"
1 post
#10
history
: "What were old school lesbian bars like?"
1 post
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+19k members(52.3%)
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Last updated: October 2, 2026