r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is a subreddit with 57k members. The community frequently discusses dating, lesbian, advice, relationships, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic and perfumes, and the most common flair used is need advice, dating, general life stuff, general conversation, and social issues.
We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd.
We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.
Popular Topics in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
Dating
80 posts
#2
Lesbian
38 posts
#3
Advice
28 posts
#4
Relationships
26 posts
#5
Struggling
26 posts
#6
Relationship
25 posts
#7
Lesbians
24 posts
#8
Hard Time
20 posts
#9
Love
19 posts
#10
Breakup
16 posts
Products Discussed in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Flair Used in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
need advice
: "Genuine question"
34 posts
#2
dating
: "Would you be in a relationship where you slept in separate beds?"
21 posts
#3
general life stuff
: "Fat femme frustration"
12 posts
#4
general conversation
: "I’m so tired of being gay omfgggg 😩"
11 posts
#5
social issues
: "Its crazy how you can go from really liking someone to not being attracted to that person at all."
6 posts
#6
Other
: "Looking for lesbian writers and creatives to exchange ideas"
3 posts
#7
marriage
: "Am I (34F) being unreasonable for wanting my fiancée (33F) to consult me before inviting people to our home?"
2 posts
#8
entertainment
: "🤔"
1 post
#9
history
: "On this day in 1977, while speaking at an event in Iowa to promote her campaign to roll back anti-discrimination laws protecting LGBTQ people, Anita Bryant was hit in the face with a pie."
1 post
#10
lesbians in the news
: "Minority Queer Owned Business"
1 post
Member Growth in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
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+19k members(49.2%)
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Last updated: October 21, 2026