r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is a subreddit with 55k members. The community frequently discusses dating, lesbian, advice, relationships, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic and perfumes, and the most common flair used is need advice, dating, general life stuff, general conversation, and entertainment.
We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd.
We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.
Popular Topics in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
Dating
80 posts
#2
Lesbian
38 posts
#3
Advice
28 posts
#4
Relationships
26 posts
#5
Struggling
26 posts
#6
Relationship
25 posts
#7
Lesbians
24 posts
#8
Hard Time
20 posts
#9
Love
19 posts
#10
Breakup
16 posts
Products Discussed in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Flair Used in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
need advice
: "How do I tell my girlfriend that her hygiene habits are starting to give me the ick? (Obviously...not quite like that)"
71 posts
#2
dating
: "Please don’t date if you’re not over her"
34 posts
#3
general life stuff
: "Being gay is losing me jobs"
25 posts
#4
general conversation
: "Did this happen to any other lesbians after coming out?"
16 posts
#5
entertainment
: "I should call her"
15 posts
#6
Other
: "Your girl's wilding, sis"
11 posts
#7
social issues
: "I’m looking for Melbourne to meet!"
4 posts
#8
family
: "Looking for other masc moms , need some homies with similar mind sets"
1 post
#9
marriage
: "Re-entering the dating game at 38"
1 post
#10
lesbians in the news
: "Looking for my future companion"
1 post
Member Growth in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Yearly
+19k members(52.2%)
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Last updated: September 7, 2026