r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is a subreddit with 53k members. The community frequently discusses dating, lesbian, advice, relationships, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic and perfumes, and the most common flair used is dating, need advice, general life stuff, entertainment, and other.
We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd.
We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.
Popular Topics in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
Dating
80 posts
#2
Lesbian
38 posts
#3
Advice
28 posts
#4
Relationships
26 posts
#5
Struggling
26 posts
#6
Relationship
25 posts
#7
Lesbians
24 posts
#8
Hard Time
20 posts
#9
Love
19 posts
#10
Breakup
16 posts
Products Discussed in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Flair Used in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
dating
: "“I’m scared to talk to girls” “girls are scary” 🙄🙄🙄"
61 posts
#2
need advice
: "I just want someone who has their life together and doesn't make me feel like their sugar daddy just because I'm gainfully employed, ffs!"
57 posts
#3
general life stuff
: "Sappy sapphic snuggles with my lady"
36 posts
#4
entertainment
: "Wink wink"
12 posts
#5
Other
: "Bummy weekends"
9 posts
#6
social issues
: "💖Pottery PSA 💖"
6 posts
#7
homophobia (TW)
: "Berlin Pride Incident"
6 posts
#8
marriage
: "My wife asked for a divorce and I'm so lost"
5 posts
#9
general conversation
: "What's one thing you find attractive in women that maybe isn't super conventional?"
5 posts
#10
history
: "Sometimes I think about all the lesbian women I was obsessed with befriending when I was “straight” and I die a little inside lol"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Yearly
+18k members(51.3%)
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Last updated: August 9, 2026