r/ESFJ is a subreddit with 10k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses esfj, mbti, relationship, personality, and question.
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Popular Themes in r/ESFJ
#1
Pain & Anger
: "this sounds dumb, but i hate being an esfj."
9 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "INTP x ESFJ relationship communication conflicts, advice needed"
6 posts
Popular Topics in r/ESFJ
#1
Esfj
: "As an Esfj I find the top advice to be anti-helpful, but maybe that's just me."
259 posts
#2
Mbti
: "My take on Mbti stereotypes: I feel like the ENFP positive stereotype is more suited to ESFJs"
54 posts
#3
Relationship
: "What do you think of these two in a Relationship?"
33 posts
#4
Personality
: "if this aint an ESFJ Personality"
32 posts
#5
Question
16 posts
#6
Discussion
15 posts
#7
Fe
: "My take on MBTI stereotypes: I Feel like the ENFP positive stereotype is more suited to ESFJs"
14 posts
#8
Weekly
14 posts
#9
Relationships
: "Which types do get along the best and which types do you have a hard time understanding?"
13 posts
#10
Socializing
: "Does any other ESFJ feels this?"
8 posts
Flair Used in r/ESFJ
#1
Discussion
: "my mom was a clinical psychologist and she said ESFJs were the most underestimated type in every system"
40 posts
#2
Anyone else?
: "Do you have unhealthy ESFJ stereotypical traits, and what do you do to improve on them?"
16 posts
#3
Relationships
: "I typed all of my previous girlfriends"
15 posts
#4
Meme
: "reposting this for like the 5th time"
14 posts
#5
Appreciation
: "I just wanted to say how much I love you ESFJs π"
13 posts
#6
For fun
: "Rare find today..."
9 posts
#7
Please advice
: "I just realized Iβve wanted to be like an ESFJ my whole life more than any other type."
9 posts
#8
Help me with typing
: "You guys are a pillar of society"
5 posts
#9
Other
: "Sometimes I feel like I can't exist being myself"
5 posts
#10
Meta (about this sub)
: "Why is this sub isn't as active as the other types'? Im curious where y'all at rn?"
4 posts
Member Growth in r/ESFJ
Yearly
+786 members(8.2%)
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Last updated: May 31, 2026