r/FamiliesYouChoose is a subreddit with 25k members. The most common flair used is i am looking for any family, i am looking for parents, get to know me post - dms open, i am looking for siblings, and i am looking for male family members.
This is the place for people to develop family-type relationships with people other than their IRL family. The goal is to create strong and supportive bonds between people, that often go beyond the typical fleeting relationship with other Redditors.
Flair Used in r/FamiliesYouChoose
#1
I am looking for any family
: "34F - seeking anyone who wants a new girl family member ❤️"
78 posts
#2
I am looking for parents
: "18F looking for a dad - i feel lost and unlovable"
46 posts
#3
Get To Know Me Post - DMs Open
: "18F- Looking for an older brother or sister who supports me and wants to be there for me and have an amazing sibling relationship!"
28 posts
#4
I am looking for siblings
: "I am looking for a sister, I’m an only child 19F"
19 posts
#5
I am looking for male family members
: "18 F Scotland - Looking for a older male family member"
8 posts
#6
I am looking for female family members
: "I am looking for either a friend or a family member more like a sister/friend, not a mother figure. 36 year old female here."
6 posts
#7
Get To Know Me Post - Comment First
: "37m mental illness feels like a barrier to love"
1 post
Member Growth in r/FamiliesYouChoose
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+2k members(11.0%)
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Last updated: August 28, 2026