r/MilitarySpouse is a subreddit with 15k members. The community frequently discusses deployment, spouse, military, pcs, and divorce, and the most common flair used is looking for advice, deployment, pcs questions, need to vent, and spouse employment.
This community is for military spouses and partners, whether you're seriously dating, engaged, married, part of a dual-military couple or supporting a veteran.
Military life comes with a lot of questions, challenges, and unique experiences. Ask for advice, share your experiences, vent when you need to and celebrate the good moments too. No question is too small and everyone was new to this life once.
Popular Topics in r/MilitarySpouse
#1
Deployment
39 posts
#2
Spouse
38 posts
#3
Military
32 posts
#4
Pcs
28 posts
#5
Divorce
24 posts
#6
Marriage
21 posts
#7
Struggling
18 posts
#8
Advice
17 posts
#9
Tricare
15 posts
#10
Husband
14 posts
Flair Used in r/MilitarySpouse
#1
Looking For Advice
: "Spouse struggling with career setbacks after PCS. How do you keep starting over?"
18 posts
#2
Deployment
: "Struggling Hard"
10 posts
#3
PCS Questions
: "Shipping cat to Germany."
9 posts
#4
Need to Vent
: "Getting fed up with spouse behavior"
8 posts
#5
Spouse Employment
: "Career advice: Nursing vs. Electrical Engineering for long-term stability and PCS flexibility?"
7 posts
#6
Things on my Mind - Discussion
: "What the actual F is going on…."
4 posts
#7
Long Distance
: "Struggling with no support"
4 posts
#8
Tricare
: "Geo-baching and Tricare"
3 posts
#9
Mental Health
: "PCS moves"
3 posts
#10
Housing
: "Could you tell if the person who owned your base housing before you was nasty?"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/MilitarySpouse
Yearly
+5k members(49.1%)
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Last updated: October 25, 2026