r/MilitarySpouse is a subreddit with 14k members. The community frequently discusses deployment, spouse, military, pcs, and divorce, and the most common flair used is looking for advice, deployment, need to vent, things on my mind - discussion, and spouse employment.
This community is for military spouses and partners, whether you're seriously dating, engaged, married, part of a dual-military couple or supporting a veteran.
Military life comes with a lot of questions, challenges, and unique experiences. Ask for advice, share your experiences, vent when you need to and celebrate the good moments too. No question is too small and everyone was new to this life once.
Popular Topics in r/MilitarySpouse
#1
Deployment
39 posts
#2
Spouse
38 posts
#3
Military
32 posts
#4
Pcs
28 posts
#5
Divorce
24 posts
#6
Marriage
21 posts
#7
Struggling
18 posts
#8
Advice
17 posts
#9
Tricare
15 posts
#10
Husband
14 posts
Flair Used in r/MilitarySpouse
#1
Looking For Advice
: "How do liberal/left-leaning military spouses handle being in military community?"
51 posts
#2
Deployment
: "first deployment resulting in divorce"
30 posts
#3
Need to Vent
: "New Military Spouse Commission not representative of the military spouse population at all"
20 posts
#4
Things on my Mind - Discussion
: "Hats freakin off to you active duty spouses"
14 posts
#5
Spouse Employment
: "Working as a military spouse feels impossible"
13 posts
#6
Tricare
: "Fertility"
11 posts
#7
PCS Questions
: "Military & Germany???"
10 posts
#8
New Military Spouse
: "Husband is deployed and treating me horrible"
9 posts
#9
Mental Health
: "I’ve come to the realization no one cares about me"
7 posts
#10
Housing
: "PCSing to another state, what do I do with my house?"
6 posts
Member Growth in r/MilitarySpouse
Yearly
+5k members(48.2%)
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Last updated: August 22, 2026