r/MilitarySpouse is a subreddit with 13k members. The community frequently discusses deployment, spouse, military, pcs, and divorce, and the most common flair used is deployment, looking for advice, need to vent, long distance, and spouse employment.
This sub is for military spouses. Newly married, or 20 years in. Dual military as well as civilian spouses of those serving and veterans.
We are here to build each other up and support each other. There is no such thing as a stupid question, because at one point we were all naïve and ignorant - and no ignorance is NOT bliss!
Popular Topics in r/MilitarySpouse
#1
Deployment
39 posts
#2
Spouse
38 posts
#3
Military
32 posts
#4
Pcs
28 posts
#5
Divorce
24 posts
#6
Marriage
21 posts
#7
Struggling
18 posts
#8
Advice
17 posts
#9
Tricare
15 posts
#10
Husband
14 posts
Flair Used in r/MilitarySpouse
#1
Deployment
: "Prayers for Our Service Members in the Middle East"
62 posts
#2
Looking For Advice
: "My husband says I can’t dye my hair fun colors?"
38 posts
#3
Need to Vent
: "Thinking about leaving"
21 posts
#4
Long Distance
: "Tired of people telling me he's gonna be unfaithful"
11 posts
#5
Spouse Employment
: "10 years later, I finally make the same salary I did before becoming a military spouse."
9 posts
#6
New Military Spouse
: "Stay-at-home mom with no access to main account. Am I overreacting?"
9 posts
#7
Things on my Mind - Discussion
: "'You signed up for this" is toxic & why most families crumble"
8 posts
#8
Tricare
: "How much did you guys pay out of pocket with tricare for pregnancy and child birth?"
8 posts
#9
PCS Questions
: "2 full DITY moves in 1 year"
6 posts
#10
Legal
: "I am divorcing my husband (sponsor) & he retaliated w/ freezing all access to funds."
5 posts
Member Growth in r/MilitarySpouse
Yearly
+4k members(50.7%)
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Last updated: May 31, 2026