r/SeattleGayDating is a subreddit with 2k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and self-promotion, and the community frequently discusses looking for relationship, gay, hook up, seattle, and m4m.
A sub for gay and bi men to *DATE* in the Greater Seattle Area. This is not a hook-up sub and posts asking for hook-ups will be immediately removed. If you are looking for hookups, go on Grindr or something.
Posts about sugar-daddies/sugar-mommas/sugar-babies get an insta-ban
Hook-up posts of any kind will also be treated with a 0 tolerance policy and get a permanent ban.
Checking the “18+ group” option automatically turns this sub into “NSFW”, which it is not. That said, adult dating only.
Popular Themes in r/SeattleGayDating
#1
Advice Requests
: "Looking for older serious guy "
2 posts
#2
Self-Promotion
: "We’re new…help us grow."
2 posts
#3
Pain & Anger
: "Is true, genuine love dead?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/SeattleGayDating
#1
Looking For Relationship
: "28 m looking for friends"
19 posts
#2
Gay
: "Femboy/Gay for night"
12 posts
#3
Hook Up
: "500 members and counting…"
6 posts
#4
Seattle
: "26 yo single in Seattle :)"
6 posts
#5
M4m
: "M4m 45 yr old"
6 posts
#6
Friends
: "28 m looking for Friends"
5 posts
#7
Older Guys
: "Looking for older serious guy "
5 posts
#8
Age Preference
: "18 looking for people closer to my age 👋"
4 posts
#9
Single
: "26 yo Single in Seattle :)"
4 posts
#10
Sugar Daddy
: "Seattle black gay communities?"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/SeattleGayDating
Yearly
+705 members(65.6%)
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Last updated: August 22, 2026