r/WLWactually is a subreddit with 1k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses feelings, relationships, dating, wlw, and confusion.
A friendly and casual community for lesbians, bisexual women and other wlw people. We welcome all wlw and nb folk who want to build a community with us and participate in good faith.
Popular Themes in r/WLWactually
#1
Advice Requests
: "Seeking Participants: Mental Health Among Lesbian, Bisexual, Queer, Pansexual, Omnisexual, and Gay Adults (18+)"
10 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Just got rejected after a 5 hour date.."
5 posts
#3
News
: "Over a third of all Top 25 WNBA players are out LGBTQ athletes - Outsports"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/WLWactually
#1
Feelings
: "I am working with someone I used to have Feelings for"
11 posts
#2
Relationships
: "break in Relationships"
10 posts
#3
Dating
: "I am new to Dating women, can someone help me understand the date I was on yesterday"
10 posts
#4
Wlw
: "New Wlw relationship mismatched libidos"
9 posts
#5
Confusion
: "Help! I`m confused, she is confused what should i do?"
7 posts
#6
Attraction
: "Question about Attraction"
6 posts
#7
Advice
: "talking stage Advice 🌺💐"
6 posts
#8
Identity
: "Happy Friday 🥳"
4 posts
#9
Rejection
: "It’s almost a year since I fell for her—and the memories still hurt, but something feels different now"
4 posts
#10
Lgbtq+
: "Lgbtq++ FIND YOUR SNEAKY LINK BUT BLINDFOLDED! 2"
3 posts
Flair Used in r/WLWactually
#1
advice needed
: "Struggling with my relationship"
15 posts
#2
venting
: "It’s almost a year since I fell for her—and the memories still hurt, but something feels different now"
5 posts
#3
dating
: "New wlw relationship mismatched libidos"
4 posts
#4
art/other media
: "Do you have a dedicated wlw playlist? What songs are in it?"
2 posts
#5
selfie sunday.
: "who’s my look alike"
1 post
Member Growth in r/WLWactually
Yearly
+292 members(24.8%)
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Last updated: June 9, 2026