r/Waiting_To_Wed is a subreddit with 70k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses tired, waiting, struggling, proposals, and relationship.
Community for all the people in a stagnant relationship. Whether you’re in a relationship with no proposal in sight, have a partner who stalls with planning a wedding, or need help with timelines and boundaries to move your relationship forward, you are welcome here!
Popular Themes in r/Waiting_To_Wed
#1
Advice Requests
: "Been together «forever» but wont propose.."
7 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "My partner (37M) of 5 years refuses to talk seriously about marriage with me (33F). Am I an idiot?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/Waiting_To_Wed
#1
Tired
9 posts
#2
Waiting
7 posts
#3
Struggling
5 posts
#4
Proposals
3 posts
#5
Relationship
3 posts
#6
Marriage
3 posts
#7
Engagement
2 posts
#8
Annoying
2 posts
#9
Frustrating
2 posts
#10
Progression
1 post
Flair Used in r/Waiting_To_Wed
#1
Looking For Advice
: "Boyfriend botched proposal and is mad at ME."
90 posts
#2
Rant - Advice Welcome
: "My (38F) boyfriend (40M) breaks down over changing a lock screen but shrugs over me giving up on us"
23 posts
#3
Questioning My Relationship
: "My boyfriend says I need to prove I’m a “fair partner” before he proposes, and now I’m questioning the relationship (30M 25F)"
16 posts
#4
Discussion/Asking For Experiences
: "My worst nightmare"
11 posts
#5
Update
: "Update to "The ring is in our apartment and I’m getting ready to end things.""
8 posts
#6
Moving On
: "Update after 1 year"
7 posts
#7
Rant - No Advice Necessary
: "Update- 5 year no proposal"
4 posts
#8
Wishful Thinking
: "Success stories???"
1 post
#9
Humble Brag/Positive Post
: "Update to: Is it in bad faith to set a “secret deadline”"
1 post
#10
General Discussion
: "Does he say he wants to"
1 post
Member Growth in r/Waiting_To_Wed
Yearly
+13k members(23.6%)
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Last updated: September 9, 2026