r/Waiting_To_Wed is a subreddit with 72k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses tired, waiting, struggling, proposals, and engagement.
Community for all the people in a stagnant relationship. Whether you’re in a relationship with no proposal in sight, have a partner who stalls with planning a wedding, or need help with timelines and boundaries to move your relationship forward, you are welcome here!
Popular Themes in r/Waiting_To_Wed
#1
Pain & Anger
: "My (33F) boyfriend (32M) tortures me with talks of marriage and no proposal"
3 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "10+ year relationship (40F and 39M) - need advice"
3 posts
Popular Topics in r/Waiting_To_Wed
#1
Tired
9 posts
#2
Waiting
7 posts
#3
Struggling
5 posts
#4
Proposals
3 posts
#5
Engagement
2 posts
#6
Annoying
2 posts
#7
Frustrating
2 posts
#8
Marriage
2 posts
#9
Progression
1 post
#10
Obsessed
1 post
Flair Used in r/Waiting_To_Wed
#1
Looking For Advice
: "My (27F) boyfriend (30M) introduces me as his wife to everyone but says marriage is just a piece of paper"
22 posts
#2
Rant - Advice Welcome
: "My (33F) boyfriend (32M) tortures me with talks of marriage and no proposal"
6 posts
#3
Discussion/Asking For Experiences
: "After 8 years of dating, I (31F) finally left my partner (34M)."
3 posts
#4
Questioning My Relationship
: "Can a relationship run its course to the point where even a proposal comes too late? 30F, 32M"
2 posts
#5
Update
: "Update: Boyfriend [34] wants to wed me [33] after breakup"
1 post
#6
General Discussion
: "Anyone here already have children and still waiting? F32 M36"
1 post
#7
Humble Brag/Positive Post
: "I (24F) feel like my bf (27M) is moving the goal post. Help, please. [UPDATE 2]"
1 post
#8
21-24 Age Relationships
: "i’m (24F) and my partner is (24M) been together for 5 years no ring."
1 post
#9
Rant - No Advice Necessary
: "How heartbreaking is it to spend years waiting for a proposal that might never come?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/Waiting_To_Wed
Yearly
+13k members(21.3%)
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Last updated: November 3, 2026