r/Wedeservebetter is a subreddit with 8k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses pap smear, gynecologist, trauma, doctor, and abuse.
With rampant sexual abuse, a serious lack of informed consent, and lies around every corner it's time for a #metoo reckoning to reach the doctors office.
This subReddit is a safe space to discuss sexism in medicine, debunk the misinformation and lies, and discuss medical abuse, birth rape, and Gynecology caused PTSD.
Popular Themes in r/Wedeservebetter
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Update to the RNs making fun of patients on tiktok"
32 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "I called a bunch of health department clinics to ask if they're still forcing medically necessary pelvic exams/paps Colorado edition"
1 post
#3
News
: "News report on testing menstrual blood for cervical cancer: "There’s finally a smear test alternative – but why has it taken so long?""
1 post
Popular Topics in r/Wedeservebetter
#1
Pap Smear
: "Forced to get a Pap Smear as a virgin so I can have my tubes removed. Test came back Abnormal. Spiriling."
31 posts
#2
Gynecologist
27 posts
#3
Trauma
: "Childhood Medical Trauma: Restrained for shots and exams, pediatricians unexpectedly pulling off my clothing without warning, etc."
19 posts
#4
Doctor
: "These Doctors really do hate women"
16 posts
#5
Abuse
: "Mentally disabled gets IUD's without consent in anesthesia for dental treatment"
11 posts
#6
Medical
: "Mentally disabled gets IUD's without consent in anesthesia for dental treatment"
9 posts
#7
Consent
: "Mentally disabled gets IUD's without Consent in anesthesia for dental treatment"
9 posts
#8
Pelvic Exam
: "How to make sure a Pelvic Exam is not done?"
9 posts
#9
Pap Smears
: "Update to the RNs making fun of patients on tiktok"
9 posts
#10
Exam
: "Gen X first Exam(s) gone terribly wrong"
9 posts
Flair Used in r/Wedeservebetter
#1
personal experience
: "I’m so thankful for this sub because now things like this don’t pressure me anymore. This was at my doctor’s office today"
7 posts
#2
vent
: "Pet peeve: when the only period products available are tampons"
4 posts
#3
advice
: "Just had a phone appointment with my asshole doc. This time I mentioned I was going to put him on speaker so my “HUSBAND” can hear, right when the call started"
2 posts
#4
News
: "Just saw an ad on TV for the Nella speculum, available at Walmart!"
1 post
Member Growth in r/Wedeservebetter
Yearly
+2k members(31.1%)
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Last updated: June 11, 2026