r/actual_detrans is a subreddit with 17k members. The community frequently discusses detransition, hrt, detransitioning, identity, and gender, and they frequently recommend/review surgeon and hair removal method, and the most common flair used is advice needed, support needed, detransitioning, support, and question.
We are a subreddit that provides support for detransitioners, reidentifiers, retransitioners, and questioners in an environment free from gender critical ideology and rhetoric.
If you are in crisis, hotline numbers can be found at https://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html.
Popular Topics in r/actual_detrans
#1
Detransition
55 posts
#2
Hrt
21 posts
#3
Detransitioning
15 posts
#4
Identity
12 posts
#5
Gender
11 posts
#6
Transition
10 posts
#7
Voice
9 posts
#8
Transitioning
7 posts
#9
Regret
7 posts
#10
Testosterone
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/actual_detrans
Surgeon
2 reviews
#1
Miami Florida
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr. Daniel Ulvila
5.0★ from 1 review
Hair Removal Method
2 reviews
#1
Diode Laser
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
IPL
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/actual_detrans
#1
Advice needed
: "think God may be asking me to give up the thing I love most, and it’s destroying me"
53 posts
#2
Support needed
: "Detransitioning after 3+ years of T"
29 posts
#3
Detransitioning
: "3 years+ on T vs 6 months off T, feeling a bit of hope"
27 posts
#4
Support
: "I got a really nasty message"
20 posts
#5
Question
: "Has anyone else just "given up" instead of actively detransitioning?"
18 posts
#6
Do I pass?
: "Trying to feel feminine again."
16 posts
#7
Timeline
: "8 years HRT(+wig) vs 2 months detransitioning + big hair chop"
10 posts
#8
Looking for detrans replies
: "Pretending not to notice everyone in certain spaces are the same assigned sex?"
10 posts
#9
Discourse
: "The trans community needs to stop pretending anyone can pass."
5 posts
#10
TW:
: "Harassment of a detransitioner"
4 posts
Member Growth in r/actual_detrans
Yearly
+4k members(30.0%)
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Last updated: August 13, 2026