r/actual_detrans is a subreddit with 17k members. The community frequently discusses detransition, hrt, detransitioning, identity, and gender, and they frequently recommend/review surgeon and hair removal method, and the most common flair used is advice needed, question, support, detransitioning, and looking for detrans replies.
We are a subreddit that provides support for detransitioners, reidentifiers, retransitioners, and questioners in an environment free from gender critical ideology and rhetoric.
If you are in crisis, hotline numbers can be found at https://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html.
Popular Topics in r/actual_detrans
#1
Detransition
55 posts
#2
Hrt
21 posts
#3
Detransitioning
15 posts
#4
Identity
12 posts
#5
Gender
11 posts
#6
Transition
10 posts
#7
Voice
9 posts
#8
Transitioning
7 posts
#9
Regret
7 posts
#10
Testosterone
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/actual_detrans
Surgeon
2 reviews
#1
Miami Florida
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr. Daniel Ulvila
5.0★ from 1 review
Hair Removal Method
2 reviews
#1
Diode Laser
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
IPL
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/actual_detrans
#1
Advice needed
: "Vaginectomy Regret"
55 posts
#2
Question
: "Why people don't understand not wanting to transition out of fear of how you'll be seen by society?"
30 posts
#3
Support
: "3 years Hrt, 1 month off feeling good but confused."
16 posts
#4
Detransitioning
: "Successful date (FTMTF)"
16 posts
#5
Looking for detrans replies
: "FtMtF(or N) who actually passed well as a guy & for a long time, need encouragement & advice"
12 posts
#6
Timeline
: "ftmtf timeline + bodybuilding"
11 posts
#7
Support needed
: "trans due to sexual trauma"
11 posts
#8
Advice From Detrans/Desist Users Only
: "Will I ever be able to love my partner publicly?"
5 posts
#9
Discourse
: "I got tissue expanders placed last week!"
5 posts
#10
Do I pass?
: "Obligatory ‘Do i pass?’ post [FTMTF]"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/actual_detrans
Yearly
+4k members(29.9%)
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Last updated: September 13, 2026