r/actual_detrans is a subreddit with 16k members. The community frequently discusses detransition, hrt, detransitioning, identity, and gender, and they frequently recommend/review surgeon and hair removal method, and the most common flair used is advice needed, question, detransitioning, support needed, and do i pass?.
We are a subreddit that provides support for detransitioners, reidentifiers, retransitioners, and questioners in an environment free from gender critical ideology and rhetoric.
If you are in crisis, hotline numbers can be found at https://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html.
Popular Topics in r/actual_detrans
#1
Detransition
55 posts
#2
Hrt
21 posts
#3
Detransitioning
15 posts
#4
Identity
12 posts
#5
Gender
11 posts
#6
Transition
10 posts
#7
Voice
9 posts
#8
Transitioning
7 posts
#9
Regret
7 posts
#10
Testosterone
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/actual_detrans
Surgeon
2 reviews
#1
Miami Florida
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr. Daniel Ulvila
5.0★ from 1 review
Hair Removal Method
2 reviews
#1
Diode Laser
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
IPL
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/actual_detrans
#1
Advice needed
: "Am I too far gone? Ftmtf"
27 posts
#2
Question
: "Is my voice getting better?"
15 posts
#3
Detransitioning
: "Accidentally got hit with a reality check regarding passing."
12 posts
#4
Support needed
: "I told my truth but my mom is saying I’m ruining her reputation"
10 posts
#5
Do I pass?
: "Detrans female"
6 posts
#6
Support
: "Did anyone else who was AFAB feel locked out of girlhood and feminity by the women and girls around you?"
6 posts
#7
Looking for detrans replies
: "Misogyny in how we r talked about"
5 posts
#8
Timeline
: "10 months off T :)"
3 posts
#9
TW:
: "Harassment of a detransitioner"
3 posts
#10
Advice From Detrans/Desist Users Only
: "extremely miserable"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/actual_detrans
Yearly
+4k members(31.7%)
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Last updated: July 7, 2026