r/actual_detrans is a subreddit with 17k members. The community frequently discusses detransition, hrt, detransitioning, identity, and gender, and they frequently recommend/review surgeon and hair removal method, and the most common flair used is advice needed, question, support, support needed, and timeline.
We are a subreddit that provides support for detransitioners, reidentifiers, retransitioners, and questioners in an environment free from gender critical ideology and rhetoric.
If you are in crisis, hotline numbers can be found at https://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html.
Popular Topics in r/actual_detrans
#1
Detransition
55 posts
#2
Hrt
21 posts
#3
Detransitioning
15 posts
#4
Identity
12 posts
#5
Gender
11 posts
#6
Transition
10 posts
#7
Voice
9 posts
#8
Transitioning
7 posts
#9
Regret
7 posts
#10
Testosterone
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/actual_detrans
Surgeon
2 reviews
#1
Miami Florida
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr. Daniel Ulvila
5.0★ from 1 review
Hair Removal Method
2 reviews
#1
Diode Laser
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
IPL
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/actual_detrans
#1
Advice needed
: "Vaginectomy Regret"
76 posts
#2
Question
: "I think we sometimes forget the main objective"
35 posts
#3
Support
: "3 years Hrt, 1 month off feeling good but confused."
20 posts
#4
Support needed
: "So much on my mind (desisting FtMtF)"
15 posts
#5
Timeline
: "8 months off T, starting my next year of college as a woman (nervous)!"
14 posts
#6
Detransitioning
: "3 years+ on T vs 6 months off T, feeling a bit of hope"
14 posts
#7
Discourse
: "The trans community needs to stop pretending anyone can pass."
5 posts
#8
Looking for detrans replies
: "Sad about detrans, does it get better"
5 posts
#9
Advice From Detrans/Desist Users Only
: "Will I ever be able to love my partner publicly?"
4 posts
#10
Do I pass?
: "What do I look like"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/actual_detrans
Yearly
+4k members(29.7%)
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Last updated: September 5, 2026