r/actual_detrans is a subreddit with 17k members. The community frequently discusses detransition, hrt, detransitioning, identity, and gender, and they frequently recommend/review surgeon and hair removal method, and the most common flair used is advice needed, detransitioning, support, do i pass?, and support needed.
We are a subreddit that provides support for detransitioners, reidentifiers, retransitioners, and questioners in an environment free from gender critical ideology and rhetoric.
If you are in crisis, hotline numbers can be found at https://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html.
Popular Topics in r/actual_detrans
#1
Detransition
55 posts
#2
Hrt
21 posts
#3
Detransitioning
15 posts
#4
Identity
12 posts
#5
Gender
11 posts
#6
Transition
10 posts
#7
Voice
9 posts
#8
Transitioning
7 posts
#9
Regret
7 posts
#10
Testosterone
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/actual_detrans
Surgeon
2 reviews
#1
Miami Florida
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr. Daniel Ulvila
5.0★ from 1 review
Hair Removal Method
2 reviews
#1
Diode Laser
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
IPL
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/actual_detrans
#1
Advice needed
: "Intersex and living as a woman, can't handle the bigotry but am scared to go back to being misgendered the other way again"
35 posts
#2
Detransitioning
: "For the first time, I get to experience feeling pretty."
30 posts
#3
Support
: "Never thought I would question transitioning but here I am"
27 posts
#4
Do I pass?
: "Trying to feel feminine again."
21 posts
#5
Support needed
: "Detransitioning after 3+ years of T"
21 posts
#6
Timeline
: "1 year off of t 😸🖤✨"
20 posts
#7
Question
: "Has anyone else just "given up" instead of actively detransitioning?"
19 posts
#8
Looking for detrans replies
: "Put more effort in this time"
8 posts
#9
Retransitioning
: "Detrans - retrans mtftmtnb"
7 posts
#10
Discourse
: "You are NOT a freak/broken/monster/..."
4 posts
Member Growth in r/actual_detrans
Yearly
+4k members(30.3%)
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Last updated: August 6, 2026