r/dating is a subreddit with 6.2M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses dating, tired, struggling, hate, and relationship, and they frequently recommend/review dating apps, dating app, and hookup apps.
A subreddit to discuss and explore the dating process and learn from the experiences of others
Popular Themes in r/dating
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Flakiness needs to stop and it’s ruining the dating market"
1 post
#2
Advice Requests
: "Girlfriend still has a year of college and I’m graduated. How do I cope"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/dating
#1
Dating
: "Flakiness needs to stop and it’s ruining the Dating market"
60 posts
#2
Tired
29 posts
#3
Struggling
24 posts
#4
Hate
21 posts
#5
Relationship
: "Committed, desperate or weird/bad sign?"
20 posts
#6
Looking For A Serious Relationship
8 posts
#7
Looking For A Girlfriend
7 posts
#8
Annoying
6 posts
#9
Feeling
6 posts
#10
Looking For A Date
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/dating
Dating Apps
52 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.1★ from 21 reviews
#2
Tinder
2.9★ from 11 reviews
#3
Facebook Dating
3.5★ from 6 reviews
Dating App
23 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.1★ from 8 reviews
#2
Tinder
3.2★ from 5 reviews
#3
Bumble
3.3★ from 3 reviews
Hookup Apps
14 reviews
#1
Tinder
3.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Adult Friend Finder
4.3★ from 3 reviews
#3
Feeld
4.0★ from 2 reviews
Flair Used in r/dating
#1
Question ❓
: "Committed, desperate or weird/bad sign?"
5 posts
#2
I Need Advice 😩
: "Girlfriend still has a year of college and I’m graduated. How do I cope"
5 posts
#3
Just Venting 😮💨
: "Update to 'So apparently I'm normal'"
4 posts
Member Growth in r/dating
Yearly
+53k members(0.9%)
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Last updated: June 30, 2026