r/helpme is a subreddit with 100k members. The community frequently discusses help, struggling, anxiety, hate, and relationship, and they frequently recommend/review notetaking app, and the most common flair used is advice, venting, suicide or self-harm, update, and graphic.
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Popular Topics in r/helpme
#1
Help
78 posts
#2
Struggling
44 posts
#3
Anxiety
23 posts
#4
Hate
20 posts
#5
Relationship
17 posts
#6
Life
14 posts
#7
Tired
12 posts
#8
Advice
12 posts
#9
Family
12 posts
#10
Looking
9 posts
Products Discussed in r/helpme
Notetaking App
1 review
#1
Microsoft
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/helpme
#1
Advice
: "I think my older brother is a creep."
62 posts
#2
Venting
: "Why am I like this"
11 posts
#3
Suicide or self-harm
: "I feel greedy just because I want it all"
6 posts
#4
UPDATE
: "Nothing to lose, nothing to gain"
1 post
#5
Graphic
: "the truth"
1 post
Member Growth in r/helpme
Yearly
+21k members(26.5%)
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Last updated: August 9, 2026