r/helpme is a subreddit with 104k members. The community frequently discusses help, struggling, anxiety, hate, and relationship, and they frequently recommend/review notetaking app, and the most common flair used is advice, venting, and suicide or self-harm.
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Popular Topics in r/helpme
#1
Help
78 posts
#2
Struggling
44 posts
#3
Anxiety
23 posts
#4
Hate
20 posts
#5
Relationship
17 posts
#6
Life
14 posts
#7
Tired
12 posts
#8
Advice
12 posts
#9
Family
12 posts
#10
Looking
9 posts
Products Discussed in r/helpme
Notetaking App
1 review
#1
Microsoft
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/helpme
#1
Advice
: "My siblings and i think my mom is going through a physiological breakdown or crisis"
28 posts
#2
Venting
: "I'm starting to hate everyone and everything"
7 posts
#3
Suicide or self-harm
: "Tired of being myself"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/helpme
Yearly
+21k members(25.5%)
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Last updated: October 26, 2026