r/helpme is a subreddit with 103k members. The community frequently discusses help, struggling, anxiety, hate, and relationship, and they frequently recommend/review notetaking app, and the most common flair used is advice, suicide or self-harm, and venting.
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Popular Topics in r/helpme
#1
Help
78 posts
#2
Struggling
44 posts
#3
Anxiety
23 posts
#4
Hate
20 posts
#5
Relationship
17 posts
#6
Life
14 posts
#7
Tired
12 posts
#8
Advice
12 posts
#9
Family
12 posts
#10
Looking
9 posts
Products Discussed in r/helpme
Notetaking App
1 review
#1
Microsoft
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/helpme
#1
Advice
: "no/ minimal contact w my (21f) bf (23m)"
27 posts
#2
Suicide or self-harm
: "What do I do, my friend is going to kill herself and the police are not an option as I’m afraid they would hurt her because she’s black."
5 posts
#3
Venting
: "my little brother is getting bullied"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/helpme
Yearly
+21k members(26.2%)
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Last updated: October 1, 2026