r/itsthatbad is a subreddit with 17k members. The most common flair used is men's conversations, commentary, caught in the wild, memes, and questions.
This is a passport bros adjacent sub. You're free to question and criticize Western-influenced or so-called "modern" dating culture without censorship. You're free to share your thoughts on "it's that bad."
Posts will be removed for expressing hatred of any kind toward others or using slurs to attack any group. Use common sense.
Flair Used in r/itsthatbad
#1
Men's Conversations
: "Wow."
11 posts
#2
Commentary
: "They can't tell the difference between genuinely complimenting someone and complimenting someone else in front of them to create competition."
7 posts
#3
Caught in the Wild
: "I tried asking a girl out a few days ago...it went about as bad as I imagined it could"
4 posts
#4
Memes
: "Normies are waking up!"
3 posts
#5
Questions
: "What do you think is the cause of a decline in bisexual identification among girls?"
2 posts
#6
From Social Media
: "Man gets home from a long day at work and makes his girlfriend a home cooked meal, and she cries about it on the internet"
2 posts
#7
Debates
: "Interesting take"
1 post
#8
Satire
: "Take: us men need to be FAR more assertive and need to put women in their place MUCH more."
1 post
Member Growth in r/itsthatbad
Yearly
+12k members(204.3%)
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Last updated: October 2, 2026