r/monogamy is a subreddit with 10k members. The community frequently discusses monogamy, relationship, monogamous, polyamory, and relationships, and the most common flair used is seeking advice, discussion, vent/rant, seeking support , and monogamous users only.
A monogamously lead place of support for monogamous people. Monogamists of all genders, races, religions, and sexual orientations are welcome.
Please keep in mind that this place functions primarily as a support group for those suffering or recovering from non-monogamy under duress or other traumas related to a non-monogamous experience.
Sensitivity and compassion are a priority when interacting.
Popular Topics in r/monogamy
#1
Monogamy
30 posts
#2
Relationship
21 posts
#3
Monogamous
14 posts
#4
Polyamory
14 posts
#5
Relationships
7 posts
#6
Polyamorous
6 posts
#7
Lgbtq+
4 posts
#8
Identity
4 posts
#9
Healing
4 posts
#10
Hope
3 posts
Flair Used in r/monogamy
#1
Seeking Advice
: "My boyfriend asked me (Intersex Woman) for an open relationship and I'm really struggling"
13 posts
#2
Discussion
: "i’m monogamous - explaining the difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone, to a potential cuddle buddy w/ benefits who is poly"
13 posts
#3
Vent/Rant
: "I don't know who needs to hear this but if you need extensive long-term psychotherapy to tolerate your relationship structure then it may not be right for you"
7 posts
#4
Seeking support
: "ended things with a polyamorous situationship"
3 posts
#5
Monogamous users only
: "just a reminder that someone identifying as monogamous doesn’t make them safe"
2 posts
#6
All advice welcome
: "Does this king of guys actually exist"
2 posts
#7
Non-monogamy Trauma Recovery
: "Quando una relazione diventa tossica senza che te ne accorgi?"
2 posts
#8
OffMyChest
: "Spouse's AI use evokes old Poly pain"
1 post
#9
Article
: "“Seattle makes polyamory, pansexuality and asexuality protected classes”"
1 post
#10
Toxic Non-Monogamy Culture
: "Jessica Fern, Author of Polysecure is now functionally monogamous"
1 post
Member Growth in r/monogamy
Yearly
+3k members(40.4%)
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Last updated: September 21, 2026