/r/oneanddone/

r/oneanddone

101k members
r/oneanddone is a subreddit with 101k members. The community frequently discusses oad, parenting, child, family, and hate, and they frequently recommend/review cars, condom, and delivery services, and the most common flair used is discussion, vent/rant - advice wanted/ambivalent, vent/rant - no advice wanted, sad, and oad by choice.
A subreddit for parents who have decided or had the decision made for them to only have one child. This space is here to freely discuss and offer support for the specific challenges, unique parenting perspectives, and judgement we face from society or sometimes our own family because of our decision to only have one child.

Popular Topics in r/oneanddone

#1

Oad

63 posts
#2

Parenting

50 posts
#3

Child

45 posts
#4

Family

40 posts
#5

Hate

23 posts
#6

Oad

20 posts
#7

Annoying

19 posts
#8

Hard

17 posts
#9

Expenses

12 posts
#10

One And Done

10 posts

Products Discussed in r/oneanddone

Cars

33 reviews
#1
Subaru
5.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Toyota
5.0★ from 5 reviews
#3
Honda
4.6★ from 5 reviews

Condom

6 reviews
#1
Lelo
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Bareskin
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Skyn
5.0★ from 1 review
#1
Blue Apron
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Hello Fresh
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Home Chef
4.0★ from 1 review

Flair Used in r/oneanddone

#1
Discussion
: "Why are people so against OAD?"
30 posts
#2
Vent/Rant - Advice Wanted/Ambivalent
: "Pregnant with first… suddenly one and done"
15 posts
#3
Vent/Rant - No advice wanted
: "My son isn't an "only""
11 posts
#4
Sad
: "Sadness about not being able to relive raising my one"
11 posts
#5
OAD By Choice
: "Considering being OAD because of my husband"
7 posts
#6
NOT By Choice
: "Is there another subreddit for those of us who aren't OAD by choice?"
5 posts
#7
⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️
: "Maybe someone needs to hear this."
3 posts
#8
Research
: "The Only-Child Myth Doesn’t Hold Up"
3 posts
#9
Health/Medical
: "Sick every 2-3 weeks since starting nursery."
3 posts
#10
Happy/Proud
: "OAD because you don’t love being a parent enough to have another one?"
2 posts

Member Growth in r/oneanddone

Yearly
+19k members(23.2%)

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Last updated: November 5, 2026