/r/oneanddone/

r/oneanddone

97k members
r/oneanddone is a subreddit with 97k members. The community frequently discusses oad, parenting, child, family, and hate, and they frequently recommend/review cars, condom, and delivery services, and the most common flair used is discussion, happy/proud, vent/rant - no advice wanted, vent/rant - advice wanted/ambivalent, and oad by choice.
A subreddit for parents who have decided or had the decision made for them to only have one child. This space is here to freely discuss and offer support for the specific challenges, unique parenting perspectives, and judgement we face from society or sometimes our own family because of our decision to only have one child.

Popular Topics in r/oneanddone

#1

Oad

63 posts
#2

Parenting

50 posts
#3

Child

45 posts
#4

Family

40 posts
#5

Hate

23 posts
#6

Oad

20 posts
#7

Annoying

19 posts
#8

Hard

17 posts
#9

Expenses

12 posts
#10

One And Done

10 posts

Products Discussed in r/oneanddone

Cars

33 reviews
#1
Subaru
5.0 from 5 reviews
#2
Toyota
5.0 from 5 reviews
#3
Honda
4.6 from 5 reviews

Condom

6 reviews
#1
Lelo
5.0 from 2 reviews
#2
Bareskin
5.0 from 1 review
#3
Skyn
5.0 from 1 review
#1
Blue Apron
4.0 from 1 review
#2
Hello Fresh
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Home Chef
4.0 from 1 review

Flair Used in r/oneanddone

#1
Discussion
: "Raising...2 "only children?""
47 posts
#2
Happy/Proud
: "I honestly think OAD is chic ✨"
32 posts
#3
Vent/Rant - No advice wanted
: "Realized today that lack of grandparent childcare might be a bigger factor in my OAD decision than I thought"
31 posts
#4
Vent/Rant - Advice Wanted/Ambivalent
: "“You will never regret the kids you had, but might regret the one you didn’t have”"
26 posts
#5
OAD By Choice
: "Relieved to be one and done"
24 posts
#6
Sad
: "Anyone seen this post in regretful parents today about adding another sibling…"
20 posts
#7
NOT By Choice
: "OAD because of autism"
5 posts
#8
⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️
: "Real story going from 1-2 (I was one and done on the fence)"
4 posts
#9
Funny
: "TMI but I’m laughing my butt off"
4 posts
#10
Anecdote
: "Who else got the “hard kid” first?"
3 posts

Member Growth in r/oneanddone

Yearly
+16k members(20.1%)

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Last updated: August 13, 2026