/r/oneanddone/

r/oneanddone

95k members
r/oneanddone is a subreddit with 95k members. The community frequently discusses oad, parenting, child, family, and hate, and they frequently recommend/review cars, condom, and delivery services, and the most common flair used is discussion, oad by choice, vent/rant - no advice wanted, vent/rant - advice wanted/ambivalent, and sad.
A subreddit for parents who have decided or had the decision made for them to only have one child. This space is here to freely discuss and offer support for the specific challenges, unique parenting perspectives, and judgement we face from society or sometimes our own family because of our decision to only have one child.

Popular Topics in r/oneanddone

#1

Oad

63 posts
#2

Parenting

50 posts
#3

Child

45 posts
#4

Family

40 posts
#5

Hate

23 posts
#6

Oad

20 posts
#7

Annoying

19 posts
#8

Hard

17 posts
#9

Expenses

12 posts
#10

One And Done

10 posts

Products Discussed in r/oneanddone

Cars

33 reviews
#1
Subaru
5.0 from 5 reviews
#2
Toyota
5.0 from 5 reviews
#3
Honda
4.6 from 5 reviews

Condom

6 reviews
#1
Lelo
5.0 from 2 reviews
#2
Bareskin
5.0 from 1 review
#3
Skyn
5.0 from 1 review
#1
Blue Apron
4.0 from 1 review
#2
Hello Fresh
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Home Chef
4.0 from 1 review

Flair Used in r/oneanddone

#1
Discussion
: "Who here is a former fence sitter?"
31 posts
#2
OAD By Choice
: "I love sleep, that’s one of my biggest reasons to be OAD"
14 posts
#3
Vent/Rant - No advice wanted
: "Just had a dental hygienist ask if I plan on having more and I said no and she said “don’t do that to him”"
10 posts
#4
Vent/Rant - Advice Wanted/Ambivalent
: "My husband’s unreliability is making me sure we’re one and done"
10 posts
#5
Sad
: "Unplanned event: The dilemma I dreaded is here"
9 posts
#6
Happy/Proud
: "I honestly think OAD is chic ✨"
4 posts
#7
Funny
: "Lemonade"
4 posts
#8
NOT By Choice
: "How did you make peace with being OAD when it wasn’t your choice?"
3 posts
#9
Anecdote
: "Watching my monster nephews in action make me certain I couldn’t handle a second kid"
3 posts
#10
⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️
: "Real story going from 1-2 (I was one and done on the fence)"
2 posts

Member Growth in r/oneanddone

Yearly
+15k members(19.3%)

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Last updated: July 9, 2026