/r/polyamory/

r/polyamory

458k members
r/polyamory is a subreddit with 458k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, advice, polyamory, poly, and partner, and they frequently recommend/review calendar app, bars/clubs, and podcast, and the most common flair used is vent, curious/learning, happy!, musings, and i am new.
Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person. This subreddit discusses news, views, and issues around polyamory, and the people who do it

Popular Topics in r/polyamory

#1

Relationship

99 posts
#2

Advice

67 posts
#3

Polyamory

37 posts
#4

Poly

25 posts
#5

Partner

20 posts
#6

Dating

8 posts
#7

Boundaries

8 posts
#8

Communication

8 posts
#9

Jealousy

8 posts
#10

Breakup

6 posts

Products Discussed in r/polyamory

Calendar App

10 reviews
#1
Google Calendar
4.8 from 8 reviews
#2
TimeTree
4.0 from 2 reviews

Bars/clubs

5 reviews
#1
Club Joi
4.7 from 3 reviews
#2
SwingLifestyle
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Freedom Acres
4.0 from 1 review

Podcast

3 reviews
#1
I Could Never
4.0 from 1 review
#2
Normalizing Nonmonogamy
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Making Polyamory Work
5.0 from 1 review

Flair Used in r/polyamory

#1
vent
: "Update: I decided to walk away"
30 posts
#2
Curious/Learning
: "Confused about gf's reason to have poly relationships and she got angry at me?"
27 posts
#3
Happy!
: "When it works, it really works"
17 posts
#4
Musings
: "What Having a Baby Means (hint: it means hierarchy on steroids)"
11 posts
#5
I am new
: "Not dating people with more than 3 to 4 partners"
9 posts
#6
Rat Union Business 🐀🧀
: "The Rat Union application form and questionnaire"
4 posts
#7
Cheated on
: "My wife wants polyamory after emotionally and physically cheating. Am I looking at this situation wrong?"
2 posts
#8
no advice wanted
: "drunk and venting about how I made the most classic fuckup... dating a monogamous person"
1 post
#9
Married and struggling with Opening
: "We are totally failing at this and need help."
1 post

Member Growth in r/polyamory

Yearly
+48k members(11.8%)

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Last updated: June 23, 2026