/r/weddingplanning/

r/weddingplanning

1.6M members
r/weddingplanning is a subreddit with 1.6M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses wedding, venue, photographer, dress, and wedding dress, and they frequently recommend/review wedding website, bridesmaid dress, and wedding shoes.
Discuss your personal wedding planning here! Please be sure to check out our rules.

Popular Themes in r/weddingplanning

#1
Advice Requests
: "If I’m a groomsman at a wedding that’s on a Saturday from 5 pm-11 pm, is it okay to skip the next morning (Sunday morning) farewell breakfast from 8:30 am-10:30 am because I want to hit the road first thing on Sunday morning to travel 3-4 hours back home or is that considered rude?"
19 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "My mom wants her best friend at the immediate family table and my fiancé hard disagrees."
11 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Help! Need wedding jewelry ASAP"
3 posts
#4
Money Talk
: "Out of curiosity, for those that are already married, did you get money or checked from your guests at the wedding?"
2 posts
#5
Ideas
: "Bride surprises for bridesmaids at bachelorette? Any ideas?"
1 post
#6
Opportunities
: "Colorado wedding vendor rabbit hole, spreadsheet linked"
1 post

Popular Topics in r/weddingplanning

#1

Wedding

: "Rushed Wedding tips"
50 posts
#2

Venue

19 posts
#3

Photographer

12 posts
#4

Dress

: "Honest opinions on this wedding gown? Tried this gown recently and I’m not sure if I’m just overthinking it. 😭 Does it look good on me? Should I go for this one or keep looking? Honest opinions are welcome! 🤍"
10 posts
#5

Wedding Dress

6 posts
#6

Planning

5 posts
#7

Budget

5 posts
#8

Ceremony

: "Nontraditional Ceremony Ideas"
5 posts
#9

Looking For A Wedding Dress

4 posts
#10

Struggling

4 posts

Products Discussed in r/weddingplanning

Wedding Website

228 reviews
#1
Zola
4.5 from 57 reviews
#2
WithJoy
4.5 from 41 reviews
#3
The Knot
3.9 from 27 reviews
#1
Azazie
4.5 from 24 reviews
#2
David's Bridal
4.3 from 7 reviews
#3
Birdy Grey
4.0 from 6 reviews

Wedding Shoes

75 reviews
#1
Naturalizer
4.7 from 9 reviews
#2
Toms
5.0 from 5 reviews
#3
Stuart Weitzman
5.0 from 3 reviews

Flair Used in r/weddingplanning

#1
Everything Else
: "Do not get a wedding planner"
61 posts
#2
Relationships/Family
: "Guests complaining about my 45 minute Catholic ceremony"
29 posts
#3
Tough Times
: "People canceling after rsvp deadline"
24 posts
#4
Dress/Attire
: "You guys told me to wear the gold dress I fell in love with and I couldn’t be happier! Thank you all"
21 posts
#5
Vendors/Venue
: "Questioning the validity of our final alcohol charge"
20 posts
#6
Recap/Budget
: "Wedding Update - 70 guests. Rented a compound so that all our guests could stay onsite and make it the weekend they wanted too. Brought in meals for throughout the weekend. Best weekend of my life. Feeling very loved by all and very fortunate. More details in post."
10 posts
#7
Decor/DIY
: "No arch?"
10 posts
#8
Wedding/Engagement Photos
: "Get the disposable cameras!!!!!!!!!"
8 posts
#9
Hair/Makeup
: "Update! New MUA danced circles around the first one!"
6 posts
#10
Budget Question
: "Is this an OK way to offer a vegan meal to save costs?"
5 posts

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Yearly
+69k members(4.5%)

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Last updated: September 10, 2026