r/whenwomenrefuse
106k members
r/whenwomenrefuse is a subreddit with 106k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and news, and the community frequently discusses rape, murder, violence, domestic violence, and abuse.
Women are told when being hit on that they should just simply say no and nothing bad will happen. Even a simple “no” can lead men to resort to violence.
Popular Themes in r/whenwomenrefuse
#1
Pain & Anger
: "3 men jailed for drugging and raping 12-year-old over three days in Kent"
45 posts
#2
News
: "Woman secretly uses hand signal for help in store; man arrested on domestic violence charge"
31 posts
#3
Advice Requests
: "A Wyoming website summarizing a long list of domestic violence cases in which women were killed by their current or former significant other. Most of the cases come with information about the victim, their life, and the people who cared about them, which have been submitted by their family."
1 post
Popular Topics in r/whenwomenrefuse
#1
Rape
: "Florida woman sues the police over mishandling of her Rape case. In 2016, Taylor Cadle, then 12, said she was being Raped by her adoptive father. The police coerced Cadle into recanting, charged her with filing a false report, and made her apologize to her rapist, who resumed raping her soon after."
79 posts
#2
Murder
: "Missing pregnant teen Kylee Monteiro texted "If I die, it was Greg," prosecutor says of Murder"
61 posts
#3
Violence
: "A Wyoming website summarizing a long list of domestic Violence cases in which women were killed by their current or former significant other. Most of the cases come with information about the victim, their life, and the people who cared about them, which have been submitted by their family."
49 posts
#4
Domestic Violence
: "A Wyoming website summarizing a long list of Domestic Violence cases in which women were killed by their current or former significant other. Most of the cases come with information about the victim, their life, and the people who cared about them, which have been submitted by their family."
49 posts
#5
Abuse
: "In Idaho women’s prisons, guards get away with sex Abuse. A yearlong investigation finds rampant sexual Abuse by guards, systemic cover-ups, and punishment for victims."
38 posts
#6
Rejection
23 posts
#7
Assault
: "Former BYU Baseball Starter Sentenced for Sexually Assaulting Young Girl for 5 Years"
22 posts
#8
Sexual Assault
: "Excerpts from the transcripts of hearings over a notorious gang-rape in Canada in the 1920s. Four men, all married with children, got a young woman to stop her car by claiming to be police officers, then kidnapped and gang-raped her. "Are you going to wreck the lives of these men?" (Ontario, 1927)."
19 posts
#9
Stalking
: "Vincent Battiloro hit and killed 2 teens on an e-bike with his SUV. Loved ones say he had been Stalking one of them and had planned the attack for months"
18 posts
#10
Crime
: "Rapist walks free after court declared that "victim didn't object clearly enough"."
18 posts
Flair Used in r/whenwomenrefuse
#1
Article
: "‘My 15-year-old relative was killed for refusing to marry her cousin. My family celebrated by dancing in the street’ | Violence against women and girls"
40 posts
#2
Personal Experience
: "A random man mistakenly walked into my hospital room, and instead of just immediately leaving……"
2 posts
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+15k members(15.9%)
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Last updated: July 1, 2026