r/whenwomenrefuse
107k members
r/whenwomenrefuse is a subreddit with 107k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and news, and the community frequently discusses rape, murder, violence, domestic violence, and abuse.
Women are told when being hit on that they should just simply say no and nothing bad will happen. Even a simple “no” can lead men to resort to violence.
Popular Themes in r/whenwomenrefuse
#1
Pain & Anger
: "3 men jailed for drugging and raping 12-year-old over three days in Kent"
32 posts
#2
News
: "15-year-old arrested after killing ex-girlfriend's mother, 13-year-old sister, and 9-year-old brother at their home in Odessa, Texas"
27 posts
Popular Topics in r/whenwomenrefuse
#1
Rape
: "Florida woman sues the police over mishandling of her Rape case. In 2016, Taylor Cadle, then 12, said she was being Raped by her adoptive father. The police coerced Cadle into recanting, charged her with filing a false report, and made her apologize to her rapist, who resumed raping her soon after."
79 posts
#2
Murder
: "Tania Wise, 23, was found dead in a ditch on the side of the road in August 2018, just days before she was set to give birth. Jose Soto-Escalera, 49, was convicted of Murdering Wise last month by a jury in St. Lucie County, Fla., with his apparent motive being her refusal to abort the child"
61 posts
#3
Violence
49 posts
#4
Domestic Violence
: "Texas man sentenced to death for beating his girlfriend to death while out on bond and wearing a GPS ankle monitor for abusing her and holding her in his home against her will."
49 posts
#5
Abuse
: "In Idaho women’s prisons, guards get away with sex Abuse. A yearlong investigation finds rampant sexual Abuse by guards, systemic cover-ups, and punishment for victims."
38 posts
#6
Rejection
23 posts
#7
Assault
: "Former BYU Baseball Starter Sentenced for Sexually Assaulting Young Girl for 5 Years"
22 posts
#8
Sexual Assault
: "Rapist walks free after court declared that "victim didn't object clearly enough"."
19 posts
#9
Stalking
: "Vincent Battiloro hit and killed 2 teens on an e-bike with his SUV. Loved ones say he had been Stalking one of them and had planned the attack for months"
18 posts
#10
Crime
: "Rapist walks free after court declared that "victim didn't object clearly enough"."
18 posts
Flair Used in r/whenwomenrefuse
#1
Article
: "‘My 15-year-old relative was killed for refusing to marry her cousin. My family celebrated by dancing in the street’ | Violence against women and girls"
39 posts
#2
Personal Experience
: "My friend is getting a divorce and her husband is pretending like he doesn’t know what this means."
3 posts
Member Growth in r/whenwomenrefuse
Yearly
+15k members(16.6%)
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Last updated: July 24, 2026