r/AskGaybrosOver30 is a subreddit with 161k members. The community frequently discusses dating, relationships, sex, looking for a, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review cologne, lube, and gay book, and the most common flair used is nsfw and 50+ only.
AskGaybrosOver30 is first and foremost a community where unstraight men over 30 can ask advice from each other.
We have requirements for posting and some topics like politics, trans issues, and religion are restricted. Please read the post linked in rule 1 for more information.
Popular Topics in r/AskGaybrosOver30
#1
Dating
38 posts
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Relationships
33 posts
#3
Sex
27 posts
#4
Looking For A
21 posts
#5
Struggling
19 posts
#6
Advice
18 posts
#7
Relationship
17 posts
#8
Gay
17 posts
#9
Sexuality
13 posts
#10
Worst
12 posts
Products Discussed in r/AskGaybrosOver30
Cologne
77 reviews
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Creed
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Dior Fahrenheit
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Clinique Happy
4.5★ from 2 reviews
Lube
45 reviews
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Swiss Navy
4.8★ from 6 reviews
#2
Gun Oil
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#3
Pjur
5.0★ from 4 reviews
Gay Book
30 reviews
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James Baldwin
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Bob Smith
4.0★ from 3 reviews
#3
Edmund White
4.0★ from 2 reviews
Flair Used in r/AskGaybrosOver30
#1
NSFW
: "Feel disgusted after a hookup"
13 posts
#2
50+ only
: "Feeling stuck and withdrawn at 55yo"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AskGaybrosOver30
Yearly
+42k members(34.9%)
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Last updated: June 22, 2026