r/DecidingToBeBetter is a subreddit with 1.4M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses looking for a, self improvement, accountability, mental health, and motivation, and they frequently recommend/review hobby, podcast recommendations, and fitness apps.
Ready to make a positive change in your life and leave behind habits that no longer serves you? This community is for you! Please read rules before posting.
Popular Themes in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Not suicidal but I also don’t want to exist - how to deal with this?"
6 posts
Popular Topics in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Looking For A
48 posts
#2
Self Improvement
27 posts
#3
Accountability
13 posts
#4
Mental Health
11 posts
#5
Motivation
10 posts
#6
Relationships
8 posts
#7
Life
6 posts
#8
Self Esteem
6 posts
#9
Mental Health
5 posts
#10
Change
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/DecidingToBeBetter
Hobby
2 reviews
#1
Scrapbooking
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Needling Felting
5.0★ from 1 review
Podcast Recommendations
1 review
#1
Adult Child Podcast
5.0★ from 1 review
Fitness Apps
1 review
#1
Ironwolf Pact
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Seeking Advice
: "How do I become disciplined and be an actual adult"
137 posts
#2
Discussion
: "I spent 3 sleepless days watching my mom die begging for vodka, but I still obey anyone who raises their voice. I'm 21 and done living like a coward."
16 posts
#3
Sharing Helpful Tips
: "If you work and go to school, change clothes before you sit down"
9 posts
#4
Progress Update
: "I had a realization"
6 posts
#5
Spreading Positivity
: "Anyone else in their 20s taking a break from school/work to focus on healing?"
4 posts
#6
Success Story
: "Emotional dependence (very big story) reading time of 10-15 minutes"
1 post
Member Growth in r/DecidingToBeBetter
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+113k members(8.9%)
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Last updated: September 13, 2026