r/LettersToYourEX is a subreddit with 1k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses to the, i, love, dear, and you.
This subreddit is for people going through heartbreak to write letters to their exes. A means of getting all of your thoughts down while remaining anonomous.
Popular Themes in r/LettersToYourEX
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Why won't you say anything?!"
10 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "I 20/F and my boyfriend 21/M have been having trust issues what do I do now?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/LettersToYourEX
#1
To The
: "Letting go & moving on"
17 posts
#2
I
17 posts
#3
Love
: "I Love you, I hate you, but I Love you..."
16 posts
#4
Dear
14 posts
#5
You
12 posts
#6
My
12 posts
#7
To
12 posts
#8
Spencer
9 posts
#9
To My
: "To H.A"
8 posts
#10
Dear Spencer
7 posts
Member Growth in r/LettersToYourEX
Yearly
+207 members(17.8%)
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Last updated: August 1, 2026