r/letters is a subreddit with 70k members. The community frequently discusses love, i, the, to, and hate, and the most common flair used is personal , lovers, exes , general, and betrayal .
A place for the letters that should be read, and those which will never be read. Check out our sister sub, r/LettersAnswered if you are interested in responding to letters.
Popular Topics in r/letters
#1
Love
88 posts
#2
I
48 posts
#3
The
43 posts
#4
To
41 posts
#5
Hate
38 posts
#6
Letter
31 posts
#7
You
28 posts
#8
Confession
17 posts
#9
Confessions
16 posts
#10
Regret
15 posts
Flair Used in r/letters
#1
Personal
: "The aplogy I'll never receive"
22 posts
#2
Lovers
: "I miss you so much. I hope you know that..."
18 posts
#3
Exes
: "I know about everything and still care"
15 posts
#4
General
: "The Things I Can’t Unremember"
5 posts
#5
Betrayal
: "Hey, it’s me again."
3 posts
#6
Unrequited
: "Indirect & Living Amends"
3 posts
#7
NSFW
: "The low note"
3 posts
#8
Future Self
: "I shouldve said this sooner"
2 posts
#9
Friends
: "Be it friendship or love."
2 posts
#10
Family
: "To My Dad That Abandoned Me"
1 post
Member Growth in r/letters
Yearly
+15k members(27.6%)
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Last updated: October 2, 2026