r/LettersToYourEX is a subreddit with 1k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses to the, i, love, dear, and you.
This subreddit is for people going through heartbreak to write letters to their exes. A means of getting all of your thoughts down while remaining anonomous.
Popular Themes in r/LettersToYourEX
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Im sorry"
17 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "I 20/F and my boyfriend 21/M have been having trust issues what do I do now?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/LettersToYourEX
#1
To The
: "Hi baby"
17 posts
#2
I
: "Found thIs gem. "
17 posts
#3
Love
: "I Love you, I hate you, but I Love you..."
16 posts
#4
Dear
: "Dear, M"
14 posts
#5
You
: "You promised You'd never leave..."
12 posts
#6
My
: "My Apologies and I want to come home😿"
12 posts
#7
To
: "Do you even need To ask "
12 posts
#8
Spencer
: "Dear Spencer OG"
9 posts
#9
To My
: "To My ex who never had feeling for me"
8 posts
#10
Dear Spencer
7 posts
Member Growth in r/LettersToYourEX
Yearly
+216 members(18.9%)
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Last updated: June 24, 2026