r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce is a subreddit with 18k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses abuse, divorce, narcissistic, narcissist, and children.
This is a place for victims of narcissistic abuse to come together and discuss the complexity and struggles specific to being actively in the divorce and/or the custody of children proceedings. Here we support and encourage each other through the difficulties of getting through this painful process. It is not a replacement for professional therapy, legal advice, or counseling and cannot provide a diagnosis for anyone.
Popular Themes in r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce
#1
Pain & Anger
: "It sucks how only survivors of narcissistic abuse understand what we’re going through"
33 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "How to get husband out of my house asap! He won’t leave and it’s affecting my mental health"
21 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "ChatGPT is the hero we all need"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce
#1
Abuse
: "It sucks how only survivors of narcissistic Abuse understand what we’re going through"
61 posts
#2
Divorce
: "My Divorce was finalized on December 31st! "
50 posts
#3
Narcissistic
: "It sucks how only survivors of Narcissistic abuse understand what we’re going through"
49 posts
#4
Narcissist
: "The Narcissist’s Wife’s Diary"
46 posts
#5
Children
: "My divorce was finalized on December 31st! "
20 posts
#6
Co Parenting
: "Co-parenting with a narcissist"
16 posts
#7
Support
: "Reminder you are better off"
16 posts
#8
Custody
: "Post-separation abuse, lies and manipulation just WON him the Custody and support he wanted."
15 posts
#9
Advice
: "What Do You Think?"
14 posts
#10
Leaving
: "If you had time to plan to leave, how would you handle things? "
14 posts
Member Growth in r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce
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+2k members(14.2%)
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Last updated: May 31, 2026