r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce is a subreddit with 18k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses abuse, divorce, narcissistic, narcissist, and children.
This is a place for victims of narcissistic abuse to come together and discuss the complexity and struggles specific to being actively in the divorce and/or the custody of children proceedings. Here we support and encourage each other through the difficulties of getting through this painful process. It is not a replacement for professional therapy, legal advice, or counseling and cannot provide a diagnosis for anyone.
Popular Themes in r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce
#1
Advice Requests
: "Co-parenting with a narcissistic ex who has 50/50—anyone else stuck in this?"
8 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "My 15 year old is being horribly used by my ex (her dad)"
5 posts
Popular Topics in r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce
#1
Abuse
: "Why do people defend my Abuser?"
61 posts
#2
Divorce
: "Looking into Divorce"
50 posts
#3
Narcissistic
: "Co-parenting with a Narcissistic ex who has 50/50—anyone else stuck in this?"
49 posts
#4
Narcissist
: "Is this narc abuse?"
46 posts
#5
Children
20 posts
#6
Co Parenting
: "Co-parenting with a narcissistic ex who has 50/50—anyone else stuck in this?"
16 posts
#7
Support
16 posts
#8
Custody
15 posts
#9
Advice
14 posts
#10
Leaving
14 posts
Member Growth in r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce
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+2k members(14.3%)
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Last updated: June 28, 2026