r/emotionalabuse is a subreddit with 54k members. The community frequently discusses emotional, abuse, relationship, help, and emotional abuse, and the most common flair used is support, advice , spousal abuse, recovery , and long.
A subreddit for people who are or were affected by emotional abuse. Share your stories and we can help each other overcome our pains, sometimes by the use of internet hugs.
Popular Topics in r/emotionalabuse
#1
Emotional
65 posts
#2
Abuse
62 posts
#3
Relationship
43 posts
#4
Help
30 posts
#5
Emotional Abuse
19 posts
#6
Leave
16 posts
#7
Trauma
10 posts
#8
Family
8 posts
#9
Confused
8 posts
#10
Abuser
7 posts
Flair Used in r/emotionalabuse
#1
Support
: "I spent 4 years thinking I was the crazy one. Last month I finally understood what actually happened to me — and I want to share what I learned."
36 posts
#2
Advice
: "Boyfriend found me reading s book about abuse. Is his reaction the final straw?"
29 posts
#3
Spousal Abuse
: "How do I even begin to tell my family?"
11 posts
#4
Recovery
: "The way we talk about narcissism is invalidating victims"
9 posts
#5
Long
: "Feeling confused - cold shoulder / silent treatment ok as punishment for being annoyed?"
8 posts
#6
Short
: "Nothing hurts more than realizing they never loved you."
5 posts
#7
Parental Abuse
: "Emotional incest and a weird response"
5 posts
#8
Medium
: "who is DARVOing who?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/emotionalabuse
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+11k members(24.6%)
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Last updated: July 15, 2026