r/actuallychildfree is a subreddit with 8k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses childfree, parents, sterilization, kids, and family.
We are childfree. We don't have kids, we don't want kids, and it's not up for discussion. Parents, fence sitters and children, you are not welcome to post here. We're not trying to be dicks about it, we just want to be left alone in this, a small, tiny, insignificant speck of the internet.
Popular Themes in r/actuallychildfree
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Parents who pressure their kids to breed are some of the most selfish people in the world. Period."
27 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Anyone got any aloe for this burn?"
4 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Airline introduces baby seat map so passengers can avoid babies on flights!"
1 post
#4
Money Talk
: "My cousin is pissed at me for buying a PS5"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/actuallychildfree
#1
Childfree
: "Happy international Childfree day!"
130 posts
#2
Parents
: "Maybe this is why Parents look so dead inside lmao no sympathy tho fr"
26 posts
#3
Sterilization
: "Happy Childfree Day!! Also 5 month anniversary of my Sterilization 🙌😁🥳"
24 posts
#4
Kids
: "ugh. i get a lifelong break from Kids by not having any! it’s almost as if you had a choice"
16 posts
#5
Family
: "Whoever enjoys the sound of children laughing must be deaf."
13 posts
#6
Parenting
: "Parents who pressure their kids to breed are some of the most selfish people in the world. Period."
10 posts
#7
Babies
: "Airline introduces baby seat map so passengers can avoid Babies on flights!"
8 posts
#8
Breeders
: "These Breeders need to give it a rest"
8 posts
#9
Cf
: "Job interviews as a Cf person."
7 posts
#10
Pets
: "Another reason why I am childfree: I won’t be getting rid of my Pets (more context below)"
5 posts
Flair Used in r/actuallychildfree
#1
RANT
: "Parents who pressure their kids to breed are some of the most selfish people in the world. Period."
71 posts
#2
humor
: "Stolen from r/holup"
62 posts
#3
RAVE
: "Queen"
16 posts
#4
talk
: "If anyone needs it (sorry if it's a repost)"
14 posts
#5
meta
: "These breeders need to give it a rest"
6 posts
#6
Mod Note
: "“Change my mind” post that popped up earlier."
3 posts
#7
question
: "Why do some people claim to be childfree then date a parent?"
3 posts
#8
link
: "Instead of parenting, Moms are trying to get facebook Childfree groups shut down."
2 posts
#9
introduction
: "That last sentence 😂😂 why in the triple f*ck did you have kids then, Sabrina?"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/actuallychildfree
Yearly
+588 members(7.8%)
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Last updated: July 3, 2026