r/cf4cf is a subreddit with 60k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses online, connection, friend, partner, and long term relationship.
Neither of us has or wants kids. Ever. In any form. So let's chat and see where it goes!
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Popular Themes in r/cf4cf
#1
Pain & Anger
: "42 [M4F] #Birmingham British virgin feeling lost and hopeless"
1 post
#2
Advice Requests
: "35M [M4F] Denver, Colorado area - looking for a life / adventure partner!"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/cf4cf
#1
Online
: "37[M4F] South Africa #Online white guy looking for a lovely black woman to start as friends lets see where it goes"
35 posts
#2
Connection
: "37[M4F] South Africa #Online white guy looking for a lovely black woman to start as friends lets see where it goes"
30 posts
#3
Friend
: "37[M4F] South Africa #Online white guy looking for a lovely black woman to start as Friends lets see where it goes"
30 posts
#4
Partner
24 posts
#5
Long Term Relationship
11 posts
#6
Tired Of Dating
2 posts
#7
Struggling
2 posts
#8
Average
2 posts
#9
F4m
2 posts
#10
Nerd
2 posts
Flair Used in r/cf4cf
#1
Male for Female
: "35M [M4F] Denver, Colorado area - looking for a life / adventure partner!"
48 posts
#2
Female for Male
: "37F [F4M] #California… Trying again"
22 posts
#3
Female for Female
: "34 [F4F] femme lesbian in Asia looking for another femme"
4 posts
#4
Female for Anyone (Intimate)
: "30f, Chicago/Northwest Suburbs. Looking for the one."
4 posts
#5
Sterile Male for Female
: "In Tokyo for a while, looking for a fling to see where it goes"
3 posts
#6
Non Binary
: "35NB4M #colorado open to LDR 💕:)"
1 post
#7
Trans for Male
: "[30] — Looking for forever"
1 post
#8
Male for Anyone (Platonic)
: "[M4A] 27 looking for some genuine connections #Germany"
1 post
Member Growth in r/cf4cf
Yearly
+30k members(101.7%)
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Last updated: November 5, 2026