r/polyamoryR4R is a subreddit with 188k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and opportunities, and the community frequently discusses online, m4f, looking, connection, and looking for.
Welcome to /r/polyamoryR4R! This place is for redditors seeking to find and create new polyamorous type relationships! This is strictly not a hookup reddit, please read the rules carefully before posting.
Popular Themes in r/polyamoryR4R
#1
Advice Requests
: "26 [F4M] Wisconsin/Ohio - Looking for a long-term, slow burn love"
25 posts
#2
Opportunities
: "33 [F4R] #England - Perhaps we are looking for each other?"
5 posts
#3
Self-Promotion
: "31 [F4R/RR] #Oklahoma #Online Looking for slow-burns 🩷"
3 posts
Popular Topics in r/polyamoryR4R
#1
Online
: "31 [F4R/RR] #Oklahoma #Online Looking for slow-burns 🩷"
57 posts
#2
M4f
: "35[M4f] #Online #Anywhere- Caring nerd here to brighten up your day"
46 posts
#3
Looking
: "30[M4R] #Online - Looking for something real not fast"
33 posts
#4
Connection
: "33[F4F] US-MD/Online looking for the sweetest Connection"
27 posts
#5
Looking For
: "40[F4F] Indiana- Looking For friendship that could lead to more."
22 posts
#6
Seeking
: "31 [F4M] in CT - industrious demisexual woman Seeking goofy, sweet, and whimsical bi bf to let her hair down with"
18 posts
#7
F4f
: "35 [F4f] can I make you homemade cookies and have a good conversation"
15 posts
#8
M4r
: "36 [M4r] San Antonio TX- looking for friends"
12 posts
#9
Tired
10 posts
#10
Struggling
9 posts
Flair Used in r/polyamoryR4R
#1
USA
: "30[F4R]"
53 posts
#2
Canada
: "46 [F4M] Looking for my long term, long distance love affair. #ldr"
8 posts
#3
Europe
: "24[NB4R] #netherlands I am looking for nerdy spicy poly friends(or more)! Wanna pick flowers for each other in modded minecraft?"
8 posts
#4
South America
: "30 [M4F/FM] Online - Looking for long term connection and friends"
1 post
#5
Far East
: "27 [M4F] #India #Online - Experienced with casual, new to polyamory & looking for a partner/guide"
1 post
#6
Australia and New Zealand
: "32 [F4R] Still looking for my chosen family"
1 post
Member Growth in r/polyamoryR4R
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+25k members(15.3%)
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Last updated: June 15, 2026