r/dating is a subreddit with 6.3M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses dating, tired, hate, struggling, and relationship, and they frequently recommend/review dating apps, dating app, and hookup apps.
A subreddit to discuss and explore the dating process and learn from the experiences of others
Popular Themes in r/dating
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Online dating is so horrible now how are any of these companies in business?"
2 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "I spent years avoiding relationships, and now I don't know how to find one"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/dating
#1
Dating
: "Online Dating is so horrible now how are any of these companies in business?"
66 posts
#2
Tired
26 posts
#3
Hate
20 posts
#4
Struggling
20 posts
#5
Relationship
9 posts
#6
Looking For A Serious Relationship
8 posts
#7
Relationships
: "I spent years avoiding Relationships, and now I don't know how to find one"
7 posts
#8
Looking For A Girlfriend
7 posts
#9
Annoying
6 posts
#10
Feeling
6 posts
Products Discussed in r/dating
Dating Apps
52 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.1★ from 21 reviews
#2
Tinder
2.9★ from 11 reviews
#3
Facebook Dating
3.5★ from 6 reviews
Dating App
23 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.1★ from 8 reviews
#2
Tinder
3.2★ from 5 reviews
#3
Bumble
3.3★ from 3 reviews
Hookup Apps
14 reviews
#1
Tinder
3.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Adult Friend Finder
4.3★ from 3 reviews
#3
Feeld
4.0★ from 2 reviews
Flair Used in r/dating
#1
Question ❓
: "Online dating is so horrible now how are any of these companies in business?"
5 posts
#2
I Need Advice 😩
: "Am I dating an avoidant or he just doesn’t want anything serious?"
5 posts
#3
Just Venting 😮💨
: "Arguments suck but they do help me humanize women better"
2 posts
#4
Success Story 🎉
: "A hostess at the restaurant did me a solid"
1 post
Member Growth in r/dating
Yearly
+112k members(1.8%)
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Last updated: October 15, 2026