r/datingoverforty is a subreddit with 211k members. The community frequently discusses dating, struggling, annoying, tired, and hate, and they frequently recommend/review dating apps, dating app, and card games.
This is a place to ask questions in order to receive advice regarding your dating and relationships over 40 (not marriage or marriage-equivalent relationships); it is not a place to look for dates or mates. We intend to be positive about dating, sex, and relationships over 40, and that includes being positive or at least civil towards all genders and life stages.
Popular Topics in r/datingoverforty
#1
Dating
22 posts
#2
Struggling
15 posts
#3
Annoying
6 posts
#4
Tired
4 posts
#5
Hate
4 posts
#6
Old
4 posts
#7
Struggles
4 posts
#8
Insecurities
4 posts
#9
Apps
3 posts
#10
Relationships
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/datingoverforty
Dating Apps
7 reviews
#1
Dating Apps
3.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Hinge
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Tinder
3.0★ from 1 review
Dating App
4 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Bumble
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
eHarmony
4.0★ from 1 review
Card Games
3 reviews
#1
Monopoly
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Egyptian Rat Screw
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Codenames Duet
5.0★ from 1 review
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Last updated: October 14, 2026