r/datingoverforty is a subreddit with 214k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and solution requests, and the community frequently discusses relationship struggles, frustration, dating apps, single, and looking for a relationship, and they frequently recommend/review dating apps, dating app, and card games.
This is a place to ask questions in order to receive advice regarding your dating and relationships over 40 (not marriage or marriage-equivalent relationships); it is not a place to look for dates or mates. We intend to be positive about dating, sex, and relationships over 40, and that includes being positive or at least civil towards all genders and life stages.
Popular Themes in r/datingoverforty
#1
Advice Requests
: "When choosing a partner, does it really matter if they currently aren't working?"
12 posts
#2
Solution Requests
: "Which dating app feels least limited without paying when you're dating over thirty?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/datingoverforty
#1
Relationship Struggles
19 posts
#2
Frustration
14 posts
#3
Dating Apps
6 posts
#4
Single
5 posts
#5
Looking For A Relationship
2 posts
#6
Old
2 posts
#7
Dating Frustration
2 posts
#8
Divorce
2 posts
#9
Communication
2 posts
#10
Relationship Communication
2 posts
Products Discussed in r/datingoverforty
Dating Apps
7 reviews
#1
Dating Apps
3.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Hinge
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Tinder
3.0★ from 1 review
Dating App
4 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Bumble
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
eHarmony
4.0★ from 1 review
Card Games
3 reviews
#1
Monopoly
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Egyptian Rat Screw
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Codenames Duet
5.0★ from 1 review
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+53k members(32.6%)
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Last updated: November 5, 2026