r/datingoverforty is a subreddit with 195k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses dating, struggling, annoying, old, and tired, and they frequently recommend/review dating apps, dating app, and card games.
This is a place to discuss dating and dating relationships over 40 (not marriage or marriage-equivalent relationships); it is not a place to look for dates or mates. We intend to be positive about dating, sex, and relationships over 40, and that includes being positive or at least civil towards all genders and life stages.
Popular Themes in r/datingoverforty
#1
Advice Requests
: "Any and all advice is welcome!"
4 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "So confused and frustrated right now"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/datingoverforty
#1
Dating
19 posts
#2
Struggling
16 posts
#3
Annoying
6 posts
#4
Old
5 posts
#5
Tired
4 posts
#6
Hate
4 posts
#7
Struggles
4 posts
#8
Insecurities
4 posts
#9
Relationships
3 posts
#10
Relationship
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/datingoverforty
Dating Apps
7 reviews
#1
Dating Apps
3.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Hinge
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Tinder
3.0★ from 1 review
Dating App
4 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Bumble
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
eHarmony
4.0★ from 1 review
Card Games
3 reviews
#1
Monopoly
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Egyptian Rat Screw
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Codenames Duet
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/datingoverforty
#1
Seeking Advice
: "No memory of inviting me"
15 posts
#2
Question
: "Apolitical?"
8 posts
#3
Discussion
: "Why do people create dating profiles before they actually break up at the end of long term relationships?"
7 posts
#4
Casual Conversation
: "After a string of bad dates, I think I'm done app dating"
6 posts
Member Growth in r/datingoverforty
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+42k members(27.1%)
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Last updated: July 3, 2026