r/gay is a subreddit with 493k members. The community frequently discusses gay, looking for a, relationship, struggling, and tired, and they frequently recommend/review colognes, gay book, and gay romance.
r/gay is a community which welcomes ALL LGBTQIA+ people. Topics include: identity and self-discovery, love and relationships, community support, resilience, representation in culture/media, mental health, intersectionality. **Divisive / hateful speech in any form will not be tolerated**.
Popular Topics in r/gay
#1
Gay
158 posts
#2
Looking For A
40 posts
#3
Relationship
36 posts
#4
Struggling
26 posts
#5
Tired
21 posts
#6
Hate
20 posts
#7
Identity
18 posts
#8
Dating
17 posts
#9
Sexuality
14 posts
#10
Worst
10 posts
Products Discussed in r/gay
Colognes
8 reviews
#1
Jean Paul Gaultier Le Male
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Paco Rabanne 1 Million
3.0★ from 1 review
#3
Yves Saint Laurent
4.0★ from 1 review
Gay Book
7 reviews
#1
Jay Bell
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
The Raven Boys
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Wolfsong
5.0★ from 1 review
Gay Romance
4 reviews
#1
Jay Bell
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
TJ Klune
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Jessie Walker
5.0★ from 1 review
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+50k members(11.3%)
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Last updated: August 8, 2026