r/gay_irl is a subreddit with 224k members. The community frequently discusses gay, irl, emoji, double standards, and looking for, and the most common flair used is :rainbowflag: gay_irl, :bisexualflag: bi_irl, and :lesbianflag: les_irl.
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Popular Topics in r/gay_irl
#1
Gay
324 posts
#2
Irl
306 posts
#3
Emoji
27 posts
#4
Double Standards
2 posts
#5
Looking For
1 post
#6
Relationship
1 post
#7
Hands
1 post
#8
Str8
1 post
#9
Les
1 post
#10
Bi
1 post
Flair Used in r/gay_irl
#1
:rainbowFlag: gay_irl
: "gay🏺irl"
141 posts
#2
:bisexualFlag: bi_irl
: "bi🩷💜💙irl"
5 posts
#3
:lesbianFlag: les_irl
: "Gay👩❤️💋👩irl"
3 posts
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+11k members(5.4%)
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Last updated: August 7, 2026