r/helpme is a subreddit with 97k members. The community frequently discusses help, struggling, anxiety, hate, and relationship, and they frequently recommend/review notetaking app, and the most common flair used is advice, venting, suicide or self-harm, seeking validation, and graphic.
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Popular Topics in r/helpme
#1
Help
78 posts
#2
Struggling
44 posts
#3
Anxiety
23 posts
#4
Hate
20 posts
#5
Relationship
17 posts
#6
Life
14 posts
#7
Tired
12 posts
#8
Advice
12 posts
#9
Family
12 posts
#10
Looking
9 posts
Products Discussed in r/helpme
Notetaking App
1 review
#1
Microsoft
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/helpme
#1
Advice
: "Lost my best friend and don’t know what to do"
66 posts
#2
Venting
: "I finally blocked my ex"
12 posts
#3
Suicide or self-harm
: "I'm in the hospital after jumping out of a window trying to end it"
8 posts
#4
Seeking validation
: "feeling really really awful about turning 20"
4 posts
#5
Graphic
: "Im so uncomfortable..."
3 posts
#6
UPDATE
: "Updating on how i feel"
3 posts
#7
Posted More Than Once
: "Im scared of loosing my beautiful girlfriend"
1 post
#8
Grief
: "i just lost my most important friend"
1 post
Member Growth in r/helpme
Yearly
+20k members(26.1%)
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Last updated: June 16, 2026