r/helpme is a subreddit with 99k members. The community frequently discusses help, struggling, anxiety, hate, and relationship, and they frequently recommend/review notetaking app, and the most common flair used is advice, venting, suicide or self-harm, and seeking validation.
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We encourage you to both ask for help as well as help others on this sub. Don't be afraid to reach out.
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Popular Topics in r/helpme
#1
Help
78 posts
#2
Struggling
44 posts
#3
Anxiety
23 posts
#4
Hate
20 posts
#5
Relationship
17 posts
#6
Life
14 posts
#7
Tired
12 posts
#8
Advice
12 posts
#9
Family
12 posts
#10
Looking
9 posts
Products Discussed in r/helpme
Notetaking App
1 review
#1
Microsoft
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/helpme
#1
Advice
: "Student need help!"
17 posts
#2
Venting
: "My mind transformed the memory of my ex into an addiction."
5 posts
#3
Suicide or self-harm
: "What I can do?"
2 posts
#4
Seeking validation
: "my friends kept bothering me to break up with my bf and idk what to do about it."
1 post
Member Growth in r/helpme
Yearly
+21k members(26.3%)
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Last updated: July 7, 2026