r/infj is a subreddit with 262k members. The community frequently discusses infj, relationships, personality, self, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review self-help books, tv shows, and planning software, and the most common flair used is question for infjs only, general question, relationship, self improvement, and positive post.
For redditors identifying as or interested in INFJs (Ni-Fe-Ti-Se) as described by MBTI.
Popular Topics in r/infj
#1
Infj
217 posts
#2
Relationships
43 posts
#3
Personality
27 posts
#4
Self
22 posts
#5
Struggling
21 posts
#6
Hard Time
21 posts
#7
Relationship
20 posts
#8
Emotions
13 posts
#9
Tired
12 posts
#10
Loneliness
11 posts
Products Discussed in r/infj
Self-help Books
21 reviews
#1
Cloud and Townsend
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Maxwell Maltz
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Viktor Frankl
5.0★ from 1 review
Tv Shows
7 reviews
#1
White Collar
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Peaky Blinders
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
The Wire
5.0★ from 1 review
Planning Software
3 reviews
#1
Notion
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Trello
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Evernote
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/infj
#1
Question for INFJs only
: "I can’t have sex with someone I don’t have any connection with"
91 posts
#2
General question
: "Do you lose interest over something just because it is popular?"
48 posts
#3
Relationship
: "Why Modern Dating Is Broken From The Eyes of an INFJ"
19 posts
#4
Self Improvement
: "I am a 29 year old INFJ. Here are the 5 Things I wish I could tell my 18 year old self"
13 posts
#5
Positive post
: "I met another INFJ and the connection feels deliciously scary"
12 posts
#6
Career
: "Let's be honest: being an ESTP would have made life much simpler."
5 posts
#7
Personality Theory
: "The thing that really hurts about feeling like you don't fit it..."
4 posts
#8
MBTI Theory
: "Being an INFJ is not a flex 99.99% of time"
3 posts
#9
Visual Friday
: "Visual Friday: Dragons of the Pond"
1 post
#10
Art
: "Relief in Scars"
1 post
Member Growth in r/infj
Yearly
+32k members(13.7%)
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Last updated: June 7, 2026