r/Disorganized_Attach
24k members
r/Disorganized_Attach is a subreddit with 24k members. The community frequently discusses struggling, attachment, breakup, fearful avoidant, and friendship, and the most common flair used is advice (other than therapy), vent (fas only), fas only (user flair required), resources / helpful tips, and change me!.
A safe space for those with the disorganized attachment (FA) style, also known as fearful avoidant or anxious-avoidant.
Popular Topics in r/Disorganized_Attach
#1
Struggling
13 posts
#2
Attachment
12 posts
#3
Breakup
11 posts
#4
Fearful Avoidant
11 posts
#5
Friendship
5 posts
#6
Healing
5 posts
#7
Relationship
5 posts
#8
Deactivation
5 posts
#9
Avoidant
4 posts
#10
Ex
3 posts
Flair Used in r/Disorganized_Attach
#1
Advice (Other than therapy)
: "I hate being the reason I cant have the person I want"
23 posts
#2
Vent (FAs Only)
: "It’s not fun. It’s just plain sad."
10 posts
#3
FAs Only (User Flair Required)
: "Do you struggle with significance?"
7 posts
#4
Resources / Helpful Tips
: "A curious fact: there are people who are a sort of an inversion of this"
5 posts
#5
CHANGE ME!
: "How to cope with feeling like a burden?"
2 posts
#6
Success Story
: "Pushing him away, hugging him tightly (My FA date in a Wroclaw park)"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/Disorganized_Attach
Yearly
+9k members(60.7%)
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Last updated: September 20, 2026