/r/lostafriend/

r/lostafriend

33k members
r/lostafriend is a subreddit with 33k members. The community frequently discusses friendship, lost, friendship loss, lost friend, and lost friendship, and they frequently recommend/review book, and the most common flair used is advice, grief, complicated mix of emotions, discussion, and moving on.
Support during the end of a friendship - a good friend walks out of your life, they made you upset, etc. Feel free to talk about how your friendships ended, or leave a nice thought for others. It gets better with time. If we miss anything that's breaking the rules feel free to message the mods or use the "Report" button in the comments.

Popular Topics in r/lostafriend

#1

Friendship

80 posts
#2

Lost

28 posts
#3

Friendship Loss

18 posts
#4

Lost Friend

18 posts
#5

Lost Friendship

9 posts
#6

Breakup

8 posts
#7

Loneliness

7 posts
#8

Moving On

6 posts
#9

Lost Friends

6 posts
#10

Ex Friend

6 posts

Products Discussed in r/lostafriend

Book

1 review
#1
Brianna Weist
5.0★ from 1 review

Flair Used in r/lostafriend

#1
Advice
: "Not being my best friend's best friend is ruining my friendships."
11 posts
#2
Grief
: "Is it normal to still feel grief over someone you lost 16 years ago?"
4 posts
#3
Complicated Mix of Emotions
: "Got ghosted by my 2 best friends in the same year"
2 posts
#4
Discussion
: "Am I being paranoid for worrying my best friend faked his death?"
2 posts
#5
Moving On
: "If you ever had to leave your best friend bc they were bad friend to you, how did you do it?"
2 posts
#6
Memories
: "Ever wish you had that closure?"
2 posts
#7
Rant
: "Grieving friendship"
2 posts
#8
No Contact
: "Cutting off my best friend"
2 posts
#9
Friendship and Love
: "Best friend confessed feelings for me, broke up with their wife, left town"
1 post
#10
Guilt
: "Now, I'll never gonna give chance to female friendship"
1 post

Member Growth in r/lostafriend

Yearly
+8k members(32.7%)

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Last updated: September 22, 2026