r/redflagsTA is a subreddit with 8k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses red flag, relationship, dating, toxic, and ex.
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Popular Themes in r/redflagsTA
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Ex of 7 year cheated on me when I was out of SG for my grandmother’s funeral"
41 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "🚩Red flag vs Just Not The Right Person"
11 posts
#3
Ideas
: "I making a list of red flags zine."
1 post
Popular Topics in r/redflagsTA
#1
Red Flag
: "Assuming is really Red Flag"
154 posts
#2
Relationship
: "Storytime of How I Lose My Virginity With Someone I Was In A Relationship For 8 Months"
137 posts
#3
Dating
: "Been Dating this person for 8 months"
50 posts
#4
Toxic
: "My most Toxic relationship"
37 posts
#5
Ex
: "Ex of 7 year cheated on me when I was out of SG for my grandmother’s funeral"
37 posts
#6
Cheating
: "Cheating IS HER HOBBY"
28 posts
#7
Breakup
: "Are these red flags? Or am i just being dramatic?"
24 posts
#8
Boyfriend
: "My Boyfriends gay friend and my ex best friend "
22 posts
#9
Abuse
: "My abusive ex dumped me when my father was dying"
12 posts
#10
Friend
: "My Friend went on a second date with a guy, they went to the movies and she went to the bathroom for 5 mins and he called her 3 times wondering if she was okay and messaged if she was ‘done yet’? What kind of a red flag is this? Has anyone experienced this?"
11 posts
Flair Used in r/redflagsTA
#1
Submission
: "The guy with 31 women in myvi/milkshake stain guy"
76 posts
#2
Advice
: "im mentally drained"
73 posts
#3
Submission + Trigger Warning
: "Ex of 7 year cheated on me when I was out of SG for my grandmother’s funeral"
49 posts
#4
Positive
: "Happier after divorce"
1 post
#5
Memes
: "Worst red flags on a first date"
1 post
Member Growth in r/redflagsTA
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Last updated: July 24, 2026