r/redflagsTA is a subreddit with 8k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses red flag, relationship, dating, toxic, and ex.
The Takeaway Table presents you Red Flags - a show where we talk about all your relationship red flags! Have a story to share? Submit it to this Reddit and it might just be in our next episode!
Popular Themes in r/redflagsTA
#1
Pain & Anger
: "8 Years Wasted"
56 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Am I an asshole?"
8 posts
Popular Topics in r/redflagsTA
#1
Red Flag
: "Are these Red Flags? Or am i just being dramatic?"
154 posts
#2
Relationship
: "Been talking to a girl for 2 years – finally seeing her for who she really is"
137 posts
#3
Dating
: "Been Dating this person for 8 months"
50 posts
#4
Toxic
: "Toxic relationship with a Christian"
37 posts
#5
Ex
37 posts
#6
Cheating
: "I think my bf (35m) cheated on me (24f) but he doesn’t think it’s Cheating"
28 posts
#7
Breakup
: "Are these red flags? Or am i just being dramatic?"
24 posts
#8
Boyfriend
: "My Boyfriend (32M) is extremely close to a teenage former student and it’s making me (26F) really uncomfortable."
22 posts
#9
Abuse
12 posts
#10
Friend
: "My fake Friend"
11 posts
Flair Used in r/redflagsTA
#1
Advice
: "Are these red flags? Or am i just being dramatic?"
37 posts
#2
Submission
: "The guy with 31 women in myvi/milkshake stain guy"
35 posts
#3
Submission + Trigger Warning
: "So i dated this guy for close to 2 years. Let’s call him S because hes an S-hole 😭"
12 posts
#4
Memes
: "15 Times Lust Made Us Completely Miss the Red Flags"
2 posts
#5
Positive
: "Update story"
1 post
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+618 members(8.6%)
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Last updated: September 30, 2026