r/RelationshipsOver35
35k members
r/RelationshipsOver35 is a subreddit with 35k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, breakups, struggling, long term relationship, and boyfriend.
RelationshipsOver35 is a place for over 30 adults to discuss their relationships,friendships, and families with other over 30 adults.
Actual relationships you are or were in.
Popular Themes in r/RelationshipsOver35
#1
Advice Requests
: "Am I being materialistic, or is my boyfriend just cheap with me?"
25 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "My BF’s life is overwhelming and he asked for space. I feel optional."
8 posts
Popular Topics in r/RelationshipsOver35
#1
Relationship
: "Cohabitation - mostly problematic for an enjoyable romantic Relationship?"
55 posts
#2
Breakups
: "I 34M in 12 year relationship with 35F it is ending need advice"
6 posts
#3
Struggling
5 posts
#4
Long Term Relationship
: "Am I making a mistake? Breaking up a Long Term Relationship because I’m dying."
4 posts
#5
Boyfriend
3 posts
#6
Partner
3 posts
#7
Kids
: "Are my (39m) partner (36f) and I actually on the same page regarding Kids?"
3 posts
#8
Holiday
: "Is it normal to not go on Holiday together?"
3 posts
#9
Relationship Advice
: "Advice Needed - Wife Spends Hours Talking to a Guy at the Bar"
3 posts
#10
Age Gap
: "Is it ok for a 35 year old man to date an 18 year old man if they genuinely love each other?"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/RelationshipsOver35
Yearly
+8k members(30.6%)
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Last updated: September 7, 2026