r/RelationshipsOver35

32k members
r/RelationshipsOver35 is a subreddit with 32k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, dating, love, communication, and breakup.
RelationshipsOver35 is a place for over 30 adults to discuss their relationships,friendships, and families with other over 30 adults. Actual relationships you are or were in.

Popular Themes in r/RelationshipsOver35

#1
Advice Requests
: "I finally stopped asking my wife "how I can help." It worked."
43 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "When you finally realize you cannot fix communication in a relationship by trying harder. 39f/40m"
18 posts

Popular Topics in r/RelationshipsOver35

#1

Relationship

: "(week 2) phone addiction ruining Relationship. Starting to feel a shift"
113 posts
#2

Dating

: "Are Dating sites better than Dating apps?"
22 posts
#3

Love

: "I Love my boyfriend so much and I'm so happy"
18 posts
#4

Communication

: "When you finally realize you cannot fix Communication in a relationship by trying harder. 39f/40m"
16 posts
#5

Breakup

: "Rewriting a relationship as abusive post Breakup? Or am I exaggerating??"
15 posts
#6

Age

: "Women over 35: how did you know your marriAge was no longer right for you?"
14 posts
#7

Marriage

: "Marriage feels like a habit now not a heartbeat"
13 posts
#8

Family

: "I am terrified of getting into a relationship, but I want a partner and Family."
12 posts
#9

Struggling

: "Struggling with “playing house” for 7 years with my partner"
11 posts
#10

Friendship

: "Perspectives on long-term opposite-sex Friendships and boundaries in relationships"
8 posts

Member Growth in r/RelationshipsOver35

Yearly
+6k members(24.4%)

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Last updated: June 10, 2026