r/toastme is a subreddit with 662k members. The community frequently discusses depression, encouragement, struggling, kindness, and loneliness, and the most common flair used is incomplete verification and :mod: see community rules :mod:.
Welcome to r/ToastMe! We are the polar opposite of r/RoastMe - only genuine and unique compliments by awesomely nice people are allowed here.
You don't have to state a reason why you want to be toasted! This sub is not only about being there for each other in bad times, but also to celebrate life and the good things that happen to you!
r/ToastMe is **NOT** affiliated with any product, app, external sites or other subreddits SFW OR NSFW. We will not promote such.
Popular Topics in r/toastme
#1
Depression
34 posts
#2
Encouragement
20 posts
#3
Struggling
16 posts
#4
Kindness
16 posts
#5
Loneliness
14 posts
#6
Anxiety
13 posts
#7
Mental Health
12 posts
#8
Self Esteem
12 posts
#9
Positivity
11 posts
#10
Confidence
10 posts
Flair Used in r/toastme
#1
Incomplete verification
: "Going on a really meaningful date tomorrow but I'm terrified she'll flee the moment she sees how big I am. Some support would be appreciated. (30M)"
1 post
#2
:mod: See Community Rules :mod:
: "35F Could really use a toast today!"
1 post
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+48k members(7.8%)
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Last updated: June 9, 2026