r/AITAH is a subreddit with 7.5M members. The community frequently discusses looking for, annoying, tired, hate, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review clothes, supplies, and vacuum, and the most common flair used is under 18 (ages 13 to 17), hypothetical, english second language, tw self harm, and tw sa.
A place to ask if you were, in fact, the asshole in a particular situation. Posts must ask for judgment in a conflict between two or more people, or a reasonable expectation of a conflict for hypothetical posts. AITAH is a judgment sub, not an advice sub. No AI, period. See the wiki for more specifics.
Popular Topics in r/AITAH
#1
Looking For
14 posts
#2
Annoying
12 posts
#3
Tired
12 posts
#4
Hate
10 posts
#5
Struggling
10 posts
#6
Relationship
8 posts
#7
Aita
8 posts
#8
Friend
6 posts
#9
Friendship
6 posts
#10
Worst
4 posts
Products Discussed in r/AITAH
Flair Used in r/AITAH
#1
Under 18 (ages 13 to 17)
: "AITAH for finally snapping at by brother"
5 posts
#2
Hypothetical
: "WIBTAH if I asked my roommate to clean up my dishes?"
3 posts
#3
English Second Language
: "AITAH for thinking i should've been the center of attention on MY birthday?"
2 posts
#4
TW Self Harm
: "AITAH for disliking my mom"
1 post
#5
TW SA
: "WIBTAH if I (23F) didn't go to my friend's (23f) wedding because my ex will be there?"
1 post
#6
NSFW
: "AITAH for telling my friend he shouldnt defile my fat mothers image"
1 post
#7
TW Abuse
: "AITAH for trying to get my dad to talk about some of the abusive actions in my childhood?"
1 post
#8
Post Update
: "UPDATE: AITAH for telling my boyfriend he should've sold it to me first..."
1 post
Member Growth in r/AITAH
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+641k members(9.3%)
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Last updated: September 13, 2026