r/AITAH is a subreddit with 7.6M members. The community frequently discusses looking for, annoying, tired, hate, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review clothes, supplies, and vacuum, and the most common flair used is nsfw, meta, tw sa, hypothetical, and english second language.
A place to ask if you were, in fact, the asshole in a particular situation. Posts must ask for judgment in a conflict between two or more people, or a reasonable expectation of a conflict for hypothetical posts. AITAH is a judgment sub, not an advice sub. No AI, period. See the wiki for more specifics.
Popular Topics in r/AITAH
#1
Looking For
14 posts
#2
Annoying
12 posts
#3
Tired
12 posts
#4
Hate
10 posts
#5
Struggling
10 posts
#6
Relationship
8 posts
#7
Aita
8 posts
#8
Friend
6 posts
#9
Friendship
6 posts
#10
Worst
4 posts
Products Discussed in r/AITAH
Flair Used in r/AITAH
#1
NSFW
: "AITAH for feeling violated that my ex went through my phone?"
3 posts
#2
Meta
: "Aitah for sitting down while others are lining up waiting for the bus?"
1 post
#3
TW SA
: "AITAH for cutting off my friend after she said she can’t trust me anymore?"
1 post
#4
Hypothetical
: "WIBTAH if I broke off my long term relationship?"
1 post
#5
English Second Language
: "AITAH for not wanting to invite my uncles gf to my wedding"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AITAH
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+772k members(11.4%)
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Last updated: October 1, 2026