r/AITAH is a subreddit with 7.3M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and money talk, and the community frequently discusses aitah, family, friendship, relationship, and money, and they frequently recommend/review clothes, supplies, and vacuum.
A place to ask if you were, in fact, the asshole in a particular situation. AITAH is a judgment sub, not one to ask for opinions or advice. Relationship conflicts and hypotheticals (would I be the asshole if) are allowed. Do not use AI in any form, even for editing or translation - if you have to ask if it's AI, don't use it.
Popular Themes in r/AITAH
#1
Pain & Anger
: "AITAH for telling a roommate that he is a guest in MY home?"
75 posts
#2
Money Talk
: "AITAH?! Money struggles"
2 posts
#3
Advice Requests
: "AITAH for involving myself financially in my sister's relationship?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AITAH
#1
Aitah
: "I broke up with my boyfriend because I’m the unstable one , Aitah"
54 posts
#2
Family
: "AITAH for not wanting anything do with my dad and his new Family?"
21 posts
#3
Friendship
: "AITAH for ending a ten year Friendship because of “harmless jokes”"
19 posts
#4
Relationship
: "AITAH for telling my boyfriend's affair partner about our Relationship after discovering he had been carrying on a second Relationship behind my back for over a year?"
16 posts
#5
Money
: "AITAH for getting mad at my sister for taking Money from me behind my back?"
15 posts
#6
Looking For A
13 posts
#7
Aitah For
12 posts
#8
Communication
: "AITAH for telling my girlfriend I want support, not solutions?"
11 posts
#9
Job
8 posts
#10
Wibtah
7 posts
Products Discussed in r/AITAH
Flair Used in r/AITAH
#1
Under 18 (ages 13 to 17)
: "AITAH for wanting to cut my hair at 17"
6 posts
#2
Hypothetical
: "AITAH for sticking with the baby name I chose even though my sister hates it?"
5 posts
#3
TW Abuse
: "WIBTAH if I took someone's cat?"
5 posts
#4
TW SA
: "WIBTAH for exposing my friend who was SA'd after my Gf cheated on me w him."
3 posts
#5
English Second Language
: "AITAH for getting jealous over questionable pics in my gf’s phone?"
3 posts
#6
NSFW
: "AITAH for calling out my fiancé for rejecting all of my ideas?"
2 posts
#7
Post Update
: "(UPDATE 3) AITAH for not wanting to share my inheritance with my sister?"
1 post
#8
Meta
: "aitah: is it discrimination if i enforce the rules?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AITAH
Yearly
+1.3M members(21.2%)
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Last updated: June 15, 2026