r/AITAH is a subreddit with 7.5M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and money talk, and the community frequently discusses looking for, annoying, tired, hate, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review clothes, supplies, and vacuum.
A place to ask if you were, in fact, the asshole in a particular situation. Posts must ask for judgment in a conflict between two or more people, or a reasonable expectation of a conflict for hypothetical posts. AITAH is a judgment sub, not an advice sub. No AI, period. See the wiki for more specifics.
Popular Themes in r/AITAH
#1
Pain & Anger
: "AITAH Boyfriend was insulting me while I was throwing up and I lashed out and said I hate him"
52 posts
#2
Money Talk
: "Bf lives with me… doesn’t pay as much as I’d like. AITAH"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AITAH
#1
Looking For
14 posts
#2
Annoying
13 posts
#3
Tired
12 posts
#4
Hate
11 posts
#5
Struggling
10 posts
#6
Relationship
8 posts
#7
Aita
8 posts
#8
Friend
6 posts
#9
Friendship
6 posts
#10
Worst
4 posts
Products Discussed in r/AITAH
Flair Used in r/AITAH
#1
Under 18 (ages 13 to 17)
: "AITAH for making my server an English speaking only one?"
4 posts
#2
Post Update
: "UPDATE: aitah if i don't give an ex who's potentially dying of cancer the closure she's asking for"
3 posts
#3
TW Abuse
: "AITAH for calling my husband a hard ass while I'm trying to take care of our crying infant."
2 posts
#4
NSFW
: "AITAH for not believing this?"
2 posts
#5
Hypothetical
: "Wibtah if i asked him for flowers"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AITAH
Yearly
+603k members(8.8%)
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Last updated: August 14, 2026