r/AmItheAsshole is a subreddit with 24.5M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses aita, job, hard time, worst, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review ubers and pumpkin pie.
A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.
See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!
Popular Themes in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Pain & Anger
: "AITA for expecting my husband to come get me?"
4 posts
Popular Topics in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Aita
56 posts
#2
Job
11 posts
#3
Hard Time
11 posts
#4
Worst
8 posts
#5
Struggling
7 posts
#6
Frustrating
6 posts
#7
Family
5 posts
#8
Roommate
5 posts
#9
Annoying
5 posts
#10
Looking For A Job
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/AmItheAsshole
Ubers
22 reviews
#1
Uber
3.8★ from 22 reviews
Pumpkin Pie
6 reviews
#1
Costco
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#2
Frisch's
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Sara Lee
5.0★ from 1 review
Member Growth in r/AmItheAsshole
Yearly
+361k members(1.5%)
Similar Subreddits to r/AmItheAsshole
r/Adulting
2.1M members
27.6% / yr
r/AITAH
7.4M members
14.5% / yr
r/AITA_Relationships
62k members
89.4% / yr
r/AskReddit
59.0M members
4.7% / yr
r/AskWomenOver30
429k members
25.3% / yr
r/CPTSD_NSCommunity
21k members
30.7% / yr
r/lonely
499k members
13.0% / yr
r/RedditForGrownups
252k members
11.8% / yr
r/relationships
3.7M members
3.6% / yr
r/TrueOffMyChest
2.5M members
6.3% / yr
About
GummySearch helps people research Reddit communities by organizing activity, growth, themes, and post-level signals into one place.
This page gives a focused view of r/AmItheAsshole, including current member size, discussion patterns, product reviews, and related communities to explore.
This data is synced periodically so insights stay current and useful for ongoing research.
Last updated: June 29, 2026