r/AskWomenOver40 is a subreddit with 164k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, hard time, struggling, friendship, and advice, and they frequently recommend/review shop, perfume, and podcast.
***WOMEN ONLY*** sub for women and femme-aligned non-binary people of any age to ask for advice from Women Over 40.
*MEN are not permitted to participate - Rule 1, but are welcome to read and learn.*
Popular Themes in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Advice Requests
: "1st time pregnancy at almost 45… don’t know what to do"
62 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Grieving a life I had hoped for, while being ridiculed for the one I've had. Is it too late at 40 to rebuild?"
11 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Where are we finding sexy “night on the town” clothing?"
5 posts
#4
Money Talk
: "How to navigate money in a mixed-class relationship"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Relationship
: "I don't want to lose my Relationship, but I'm unhappy with our sex life. How do I bring it up?"
23 posts
#2
Hard Time
15 posts
#3
Struggling
: "Struggling to let go of someone who hurt my husband. Why am I more angry than my husband?"
14 posts
#4
Friendship
: "On Friendship: is asking for more reciprocity asking for a bare minimum?"
13 posts
#5
Advice
: "Advice to prepare for perimenopause?"
12 posts
#6
Career
: "Has anyone started over Career wise over 40?"
10 posts
#7
Dating
: "To those who had their first child after 40, what was your Dating experience like prior to that?"
9 posts
#8
Relationships
: "Have you had a partner who was “great on paper” but your lived experience didn’t match how others saw him?"
8 posts
#9
Health
: "No Health insurance options"
8 posts
#10
Parenting
: "Friend’s Parenting style is concerning. Should I say something again?"
6 posts
Products Discussed in r/AskWomenOver40
Shop
230 reviews
#1
Nordstrom
5.0★ from 8 reviews
#2
Anthropologie
4.8★ from 8 reviews
#3
White House Black Market
5.0★ from 8 reviews
Perfume
17 reviews
#1
Chanel
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Philosophy
4.5★ from 2 reviews
#3
Elizabeth Arden
4.0★ from 1 review
Podcast
13 reviews
#1
Call Her Daddy
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr Kelly Casperson
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
river+michelle
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
ADVICE
: "I found hidden cameras in my house…what now?"
49 posts
#2
Friendship Advice
: "Friend made me his emergency contact, hella drama has ensued"
22 posts
#3
Dating Advice
: "Struggle with always being the single one"
17 posts
#4
Marriage Advice
: "Am I going to lose my mind over my husband’s noises?"
15 posts
#5
Health - (RULE 4 No Medical Advice)
: "Peri hit me like a truck at 38, I changed so fast. Anyone else?"
14 posts
#6
Fashion Advice
: "What do i wear at home ro make me feel less ugly? 🙄"
14 posts
#7
Mental Health Advice
: "Is anyone else kinda bored at this life stage?"
11 posts
#8
Work Advice
: "Has anyone started over career wise over 40?"
11 posts
#9
Family Advice
: "How much financial help should I offer an aging parent?"
11 posts
#10
Beauty & Skincare Advice
: "Blondes, when did you start coloring your greys?"
7 posts
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Last updated: June 22, 2026