r/AskWomenOver40 is a subreddit with 172k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses hard time, struggling, relationship, menopause, and mother, and they frequently recommend/review shop, perfume, and podcast.
***WOMEN ONLY*** sub for women and femme-aligned non-binary people of any age to ask for advice from Women Over 40.
*MEN are not permitted to participate - Rule 1, but are welcome to read and learn.*
Popular Themes in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Advice Requests
: "43, never married, no partner, no kids, no social circle and got unemployed and struggling with life in every possible way. Any advice?"
6 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "How do I stop grieving the youth I feel I lost?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Hard Time
15 posts
#2
Struggling
14 posts
#3
Relationship
7 posts
#4
Menopause
2 posts
#5
Mother
2 posts
#6
Aging
2 posts
#7
Loneliness
2 posts
#8
Career
2 posts
#9
Relationships
2 posts
#10
Porn
1 post
Products Discussed in r/AskWomenOver40
Shop
230 reviews
#1
Nordstrom
5.0★ from 8 reviews
#2
Anthropologie
4.8★ from 8 reviews
#3
White House Black Market
5.0★ from 8 reviews
Perfume
17 reviews
#1
Chanel
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Philosophy
4.5★ from 2 reviews
#3
Elizabeth Arden
4.0★ from 1 review
Podcast
13 reviews
#1
Call Her Daddy
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr Kelly Casperson
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
river+michelle
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
ADVICE
: "43, never married, no partner, no kids, no social circle and got unemployed and struggling with life in every possible way. Any advice?"
5 posts
#2
Friendship Advice
: "I wanted to “build a village / be the village”, but burned out. What should i consider in the future to build community sustainably?"
1 post
#3
Marriage Advice
: "Is this abuse and is this good enough reason to leave"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AskWomenOver40
Yearly
+42k members(31.9%)
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Last updated: September 21, 2026