r/AskWomenOver40 is a subreddit with 174k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests, and the community frequently discusses struggling, hard time, relationship, career, and menopause, and they frequently recommend/review shop, perfume, and podcast.
***WOMEN ONLY*** sub for women and femme-aligned non-binary people of any age to ask for advice from Women Over 40.
*MEN are not permitted to participate - Rule 1, but are welcome to read and learn.*
Popular Themes in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Advice Requests
: "What Are The Best Ways To Self-Celebrate Turning 40?"
11 posts
Popular Topics in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Struggling
16 posts
#2
Hard Time
15 posts
#3
Relationship
7 posts
#4
Career
3 posts
#5
Menopause
2 posts
#6
Mother
2 posts
#7
Aging
2 posts
#8
Loneliness
2 posts
#9
Relationships
2 posts
#10
Porn
1 post
Products Discussed in r/AskWomenOver40
Shop
230 reviews
#1
Nordstrom
5.0★ from 8 reviews
#2
Anthropologie
4.8★ from 8 reviews
#3
White House Black Market
5.0★ from 8 reviews
Perfume
17 reviews
#1
Chanel
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Philosophy
4.5★ from 2 reviews
#3
Elizabeth Arden
4.0★ from 1 review
Podcast
13 reviews
#1
Call Her Daddy
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr Kelly Casperson
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
river+michelle
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
ADVICE
: "What Are The Best Ways To Self-Celebrate Turning 40?"
4 posts
#2
Friendship Advice
: "In my mid-40s, perimenopausal and feel incredibly depressed and lonely. Anyone else feel the same?"
3 posts
#3
Dating Advice
: "Dating Scene These Days? 42yo after 21yrs of marriage."
3 posts
#4
Relationship Advice
: "My boyfriend has brought up leaving me 5+ times this year and says there’s nothing he could do better. Am I asking too much of him?"
1 post
#5
Marriage Advice
: "How can I rebuild my confidence and independence at 31 while navigating separation and a career change?"
1 post
#6
FUNNY - Something To Make You Laugh 😂
: "Things Wives Carry in Their Purses for Their Husbands"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AskWomenOver40
Yearly
+41k members(30.9%)
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Last updated: October 15, 2026