r/AskWomenOver40 is a subreddit with 169k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests, and the community frequently discusses hard time, struggling, relationship, marriage, and age, and they frequently recommend/review shop, perfume, and podcast.
***WOMEN ONLY*** sub for women and femme-aligned non-binary people of any age to ask for advice from Women Over 40.
*MEN are not permitted to participate - Rule 1, but are welcome to read and learn.*
Popular Themes in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Advice Requests
: "I’m (33F) scared that my marriage with my husband (33M) is not going to be okay - lack of sex and he is not opening up. Advice please?"
4 posts
Popular Topics in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Hard Time
15 posts
#2
Struggling
14 posts
#3
Relationship
: "First-born African daughters: how to navigate conflict with a parent who expects an apology but won’t take accountability?"
10 posts
#4
Marriage
: "Am I being perimenopausal or am I right about the state of my Marriage?"
3 posts
#5
Age
: "I have become very socially invisible. Is this common with Age?"
3 posts
#6
Self
: "How do I learn to accept when a man has picked another over me?"
3 posts
#7
Menopause
2 posts
#8
Mother
2 posts
#9
Aging
2 posts
#10
Loneliness
2 posts
Products Discussed in r/AskWomenOver40
Shop
230 reviews
#1
Nordstrom
5.0★ from 8 reviews
#2
Anthropologie
4.8★ from 8 reviews
#3
White House Black Market
5.0★ from 8 reviews
Perfume
17 reviews
#1
Chanel
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Philosophy
4.5★ from 2 reviews
#3
Elizabeth Arden
4.0★ from 1 review
Podcast
13 reviews
#1
Call Her Daddy
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr Kelly Casperson
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
river+michelle
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
ADVICE
: "I have become very socially invisible. Is this common with age?"
3 posts
#2
Marriage Advice
: "Am I being perimenopausal or am I right about the state of my marriage?"
2 posts
#3
Mental Health Advice
: "How to find the joy of solitude again?"
2 posts
#4
Work Advice
: "I feel like I'm doing everything wrong when socializing and want to hide away from humans. How do i get over this?"
2 posts
#5
Relationship Advice
: "Friend's spouse keeps tagging along to social catch ups. Is this strange?"
1 post
#6
Friendship Advice
: "Why my female friends still treat me like the insecure girl I was in high school?"
1 post
#7
Dating Advice
: "How do I learn to accept when a man has picked another over me?"
1 post
#8
WIN for the WEEK! 🎉
: "I did a thing and I'm feeling so proud of myself and wanted to share"
1 post
#9
Beauty & Skincare Advice
: "How often should I color my roots?"
1 post
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+44k members(34.8%)
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Last updated: August 25, 2026