r/AskWomenOver30
427k members
r/AskWomenOver30 is a subreddit with 427k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses friendship, relationship, relationships, dating, and career, and they frequently recommend/review yoga pants, antiperspirant, and sandals.
AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.
Popular Themes in r/AskWomenOver30
#1
Advice Requests
: "My boyfriend appears to be significantly wealthier than I realized. When should couples disclose their full finances?"
26 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Why is dating so demoralizing?"
4 posts
Popular Topics in r/AskWomenOver30
#1
Friendship
: "Have Friendships become less about repair/reciprocity and more about 'protecting your peace'?"
39 posts
#2
Relationship
: "Has anyone ever chosen a long term Friends w/Benefits over a Relationship/partnership?"
36 posts
#3
Relationships
: "Having the worst limerance of my life and I need support"
26 posts
#4
Dating
: "Why is Dating so demoralizing?"
21 posts
#5
Career
: "35F dreaming of a science Career with zero math/science background. Anyone made a leap like this?"
20 posts
#6
Breakup
: "How to deal with a break up in your mid-30s when you thought he was the one?"
15 posts
#7
Loneliness
: "How do you cope with the Loneliness of not being chosen romantically in your 30s?"
14 posts
#8
Family
: "Has your Family supported you into adulthood as well?"
14 posts
#9
Mental Health
: "Is anyone else feeling constant general malaise and battling nostalgia?"
13 posts
#10
Life
: "Anyone else just feels indifferent about Life? Like your Life energy is changing"
12 posts
Products Discussed in r/AskWomenOver30
Yoga Pants
45 reviews
#1
Old Navy
4.9★ from 14 reviews
#2
Baleaf
4.7★ from 3 reviews
#3
Costco
4.7★ from 3 reviews
Antiperspirant
44 reviews
#1
Mitchum
5.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Dove
4.3★ from 4 reviews
#3
Driclor
4.3★ from 3 reviews
Sandals
39 reviews
#1
Teva
4.3★ from 7 reviews
#2
Birkenstock
4.8★ from 6 reviews
#3
Dr. Scholl's
4.0★ from 4 reviews
Flair Used in r/AskWomenOver30
#1
Romance/Relationships
: "My boyfriend appears to be significantly wealthier than I realized. When should couples disclose their full finances?"
58 posts
#2
Life/Self/Spirituality
: "Anyone else grieving the life you thought you’d have by now?"
46 posts
#3
Friendships
: "Twenty year friendship over after our first, only, and final fight. Her husband screamed at me out of nowhere."
35 posts
#4
Misc Discussion
: "Anyone at that point in their life where they wake up to zero text messages or spend an entire day without receiving any text messages?"
22 posts
#5
Career
: "Does anyone else feel like everyone but you got some kind of corporate behavior/jargon guide before entering the workforce?"
11 posts
#6
Beauty/Fashion
: "Bare legs a no go for me"
8 posts
#7
Family/Parenting
: "My parents (but especially my dad’s) talkativeness is running relationships."
8 posts
#8
Hobbies/Travel/Recreation
: "Anyone else reach mid 30s and suddenly become obsessed with birds?"
6 posts
#9
Silly Stuff
: "What is the worst, messiest, more disorganized wedding you've ever attended?"
5 posts
Member Growth in r/AskWomenOver30
Yearly
+86k members(25.1%)
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Last updated: June 22, 2026