r/AskWomenOver40 is a subreddit with 165k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses hard time, struggling, relationship, marriage, and 40s, and they frequently recommend/review shop, perfume, and podcast.
***WOMEN ONLY*** sub for women and femme-aligned non-binary people of any age to ask for advice from Women Over 40.
*MEN are not permitted to participate - Rule 1, but are welcome to read and learn.*
Popular Themes in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Advice Requests
: "Is it too late to start a skincare routine at 49?"
4 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I think I need to end a friendship and it is causing me a lot of pain"
2 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Best exercise/weight lifting app for women (over 40)"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Hard Time
15 posts
#2
Struggling
14 posts
#3
Relationship
7 posts
#4
Marriage
: "Can I get over my anger and resentment, landing in a better place in my Marriage?"
4 posts
#5
40s
: "I'm rapidly approaching 40 and feel like my life isn't what I thought it would be, is this normal?"
3 posts
#6
Menopause
2 posts
#7
Mother
2 posts
#8
Aging
2 posts
#9
Loneliness
2 posts
#10
Career
2 posts
Products Discussed in r/AskWomenOver40
Shop
230 reviews
#1
Nordstrom
5.0★ from 8 reviews
#2
Anthropologie
4.8★ from 8 reviews
#3
White House Black Market
5.0★ from 8 reviews
Perfume
17 reviews
#1
Chanel
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Philosophy
4.5★ from 2 reviews
#3
Elizabeth Arden
4.0★ from 1 review
Podcast
13 reviews
#1
Call Her Daddy
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr Kelly Casperson
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
river+michelle
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Marriage Advice
: "How many of us are sleeping separate from husbands and happier than ever??"
3 posts
#2
ADVICE
: "I'm rapidly approaching 40 and feel like my life isn't what I thought it would be, is this normal?"
2 posts
#3
Friendship Advice
: "I think I need to end a friendship and it is causing me a lot of pain"
2 posts
#4
Beauty & Skincare Advice
: "Insecure about my pale skin as a young girl - Do you regret tanning?"
2 posts
#5
Mental Health Advice
: "On vacation and feeling down…"
2 posts
#6
Family Advice
: "Low self-esteem. Absent mother and father. How do I start the healing journey?"
1 post
#7
Health - (RULE 4 No Medical Advice)
: "Best Ultra Easy On the Go Breakfasts"
1 post
#8
Dating Advice
: "I Got Blocked By A Man On His Birthday - How Should I Proceed?"
1 post
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Last updated: July 11, 2026