r/AskWomenOver40 is a subreddit with 176k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests, and the community frequently discusses struggling, hard time, relationship, career, and menopause, and they frequently recommend/review shop, perfume, and podcast.
***WOMEN ONLY*** sub for women and femme-aligned non-binary people of any age to ask for advice from Women Over 40.
*MEN are not permitted to participate - Rule 1, but are welcome to read and learn.*
Popular Themes in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Advice Requests
: "Close friend of 14 years blocked me right after her wedding and now keeps wanting to add me again - what do I do?"
6 posts
Popular Topics in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
Struggling
15 posts
#2
Hard Time
14 posts
#3
Relationship
7 posts
#4
Career
3 posts
#5
Menopause
2 posts
#6
Mother
2 posts
#7
Aging
2 posts
#8
Loneliness
2 posts
#9
Relationships
2 posts
#10
Porn
1 post
Products Discussed in r/AskWomenOver40
Shop
230 reviews
#1
Nordstrom
5.0★ from 8 reviews
#2
Anthropologie
4.8★ from 8 reviews
#3
White House Black Market
5.0★ from 8 reviews
Perfume
17 reviews
#1
Chanel
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
Philosophy
4.5★ from 2 reviews
#3
Elizabeth Arden
4.0★ from 1 review
Podcast
13 reviews
#1
Call Her Daddy
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Dr Kelly Casperson
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
river+michelle
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AskWomenOver40
#1
ADVICE
: "Am I weird for not changing my name after divorce?"
8 posts
#2
Friendship Advice
: "Close friend of 14 years blocked me right after her wedding and now keeps wanting to add me again - what do I do?"
3 posts
#3
Dating Advice
: "Blindsided after a sudden breakup in my 40ies. How do you trust again a man at this age?"
3 posts
#4
Work Advice
: "I've had an unconventional / portfolio career so far in my 20s and early 30s - what would a more stable version of this look at 40+?"
2 posts
#5
Relationship Advice
: "No longer happy in the relationship but love is there, should I stay or leave?"
1 post
#6
Mental Health Advice
: "I (30F) struggle with relationship anxiety/ruminating thoughts. What coping strategies helped?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AskWomenOver40
Yearly
+40k members(29.9%)
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Last updated: November 5, 2026