r/AvoidantAttachment is a subreddit with 63k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses avoidant, attachment, hate, meme, and feeling.
To post here, read the pinned post, do NOT message the moderators. To keep this a safe space for avoidant attachers, this subreddit is strictly moderated. Please review the subreddit rules prior to participating to ensure this subreddit remains on topic. For those who do not have an avoidant attachment style looking for answers, there is a wealth of information for you available by keyword searching "FAQ." Non-avoidant participation is limited and enforced. Please respect our space.
Popular Themes in r/AvoidantAttachment
#1
Pain & Anger
: "i find non-self-reliant people incredibly frustrating"
26 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Anyone struggle with the idea of lifelong exclusivity?"
12 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Relationship Management Systems & Apps"
1 post
#4
Money Talk
: "Anyone else feel stingy with their money/chores with their partner?"
1 post
#5
Self-Promotion
: "Weekly Post - ✨Wins and Successes ✨"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantAttachment
#1
Avoidant
: "Avoidant Tendencies Towards Meds"
24 posts
#2
Attachment
: "Realistically, if your Attachment issues are severe are they ever going to get better (losing hope)"
16 posts
#3
Hate
14 posts
#4
Meme
: "🎉Meme MONDAY🎉"
11 posts
#5
Feeling
10 posts
#6
Relationship
: "He broke up with me, I feel like all my efforts have been wasted"
10 posts
#7
Rant
: "Weekly Rant/Vent Thread"
10 posts
#8
Wins
7 posts
#9
Struggling
6 posts
#10
Tired
6 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantAttachment
#1
Seeking Support - Advice is OK✅
: "Another relationship with no room for me to be vulnerable"
65 posts
#2
Rant/Vent
: "i find non-self-reliant people incredibly frustrating"
9 posts
#3
General Question About Avoidant Attachment
: "Curious if the idea of “you wouldn’t be avoidant with the right person” rings true to anyone"
9 posts
#4
Self Discovery
: "Low Distress Tolerance for OTHER People's Distress - Thoughts?"
6 posts
#5
Humor
: "It’s crazy how we mimic the attitude we fear the most?"
3 posts
#6
Hypothesis
: "Is this a DA blindspot?"
3 posts
#7
Attachment Theory Material
: "Resources"
3 posts
#8
Relationship Advice
: "Have you opened up to your partner?"
3 posts
#9
Poll
: "How often do you all think of breaking up with your partner?"
1 post
#10
Moderator Post
: "READ THIS if you want to POST here"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AvoidantAttachment
Yearly
+14k members(29.0%)
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Last updated: October 26, 2026