r/AvoidantAttachment is a subreddit with 62k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses avoidant, attachment, hate, meme, and feeling.
To post here, read the pinned post, do NOT message the moderators. To keep this a safe space for avoidant attachers, this subreddit is strictly moderated. Please review the subreddit rules prior to participating to ensure this subreddit remains on topic. For those who do not have an avoidant attachment style looking for answers, there is a wealth of information for you available by keyword searching "FAQ." Non-avoidant participation is limited and enforced. Please respect our space.
Popular Themes in r/AvoidantAttachment
#1
Pain & Anger
: "i find non-self-reliant people incredibly frustrating"
20 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "How do I stop painting my partner into a bad light?"
20 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Is the solution to have friends who are also "low maintaince"?"
2 posts
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantAttachment
#1
Avoidant
: "My willingness to socialize is almost non-existant (Avoidant and Introvert Combo)"
24 posts
#2
Attachment
: "Realistically, if your Attachment issues are severe are they ever going to get better (losing hope)"
16 posts
#3
Hate
14 posts
#4
Meme
11 posts
#5
Feeling
10 posts
#6
Relationship
: "Losing Desire For Intimacy After 3 Months in Every Relationship"
10 posts
#7
Rant
10 posts
#8
Wins
7 posts
#9
Struggling
6 posts
#10
Tired
6 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantAttachment
#1
Seeking Support - Advice is OK✅
: "I hate love."
100 posts
#2
Self Discovery
: "Avoidants have needs just like others - do you agree?"
25 posts
#3
Rant/Vent
: "Pour one out for avoidant women who date women"
15 posts
#4
Attachment Theory Material
: "The HOTTEST HOT TAKE"
14 posts
#5
General Question About Avoidant Attachment
: "Do you cut people off easily?"
11 posts
#6
Humor
: "the ol’ unintentional bait & switch"
9 posts
#7
Moderator Post
: "Non-Avoidants: lurk at your own risk"
6 posts
#8
Hypothesis
: "Do you feel deeply drained by socialization/people as a result of your avoidant attachment?"
6 posts
#9
Input Wanted
: "Anyone else bothered by the rude comments about avoidants on any attachment related content ?"
4 posts
#10
General Question About Attachment Theory
: "Is it just me or is "date secure people" a bad idea?"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/AvoidantAttachment
Yearly
+15k members(31.5%)
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Last updated: September 6, 2026