r/AvoidantBreakUps is a subreddit with 33k members. The community frequently discusses avoidant, breakup, struggling, relationship, and ex, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, da breakup, avoidant advice requested, fa breakup, and personal growth.
A support community for those recovering from a breakup with a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Avoidant
166 posts
#2
Breakup
136 posts
#3
Struggling
72 posts
#4
Relationship
57 posts
#5
Ex
40 posts
#6
Advice
29 posts
#7
Discard
23 posts
#8
Moveon
16 posts
#9
Feelings
16 posts
#10
Love
14 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Vent/Rant
: "She moved on while I was still trying to make sense of what happened"
22 posts
#2
DA Breakup
: "Helpp"
16 posts
#3
Avoidant Advice Requested
: "My ex got together with someone else just three weeks after our breakup — rebound or the love of his life?"
12 posts
#4
FA Breakup
: "Do you want them to realize what they did?"
10 posts
#5
Personal Growth
: "Your silence and peace is the biggest revenge you can imagine"
6 posts
#6
From FA’s Perspective
: "The hardest part about avoidants isn’t that they leave - it’s how sure they seemed before they did"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Yearly
+25k members(306.3%)
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Last updated: September 15, 2026