r/AvoidantBreakUps is a subreddit with 31k members. The community frequently discusses avoidant, breakup, struggling, relationship, and ex, and the most common flair used is da breakup, vent/rant, fa breakup, avoidant advice requested, and personal growth.
A support community for those recovering from a breakup with a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Avoidant
166 posts
#2
Breakup
136 posts
#3
Struggling
72 posts
#4
Relationship
57 posts
#5
Ex
40 posts
#6
Advice
29 posts
#7
Discard
23 posts
#8
Moveon
16 posts
#9
Feelings
16 posts
#10
Love
14 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
DA Breakup
: "The fact that she supposedly disliked my personality and relationship style from the start but still let me keep going with it for years feels like a violation"
21 posts
#2
Vent/Rant
: "How did you deal with seeing an avoidant ex after a breakup?"
18 posts
#3
FA Breakup
: "Holding on to hope."
14 posts
#4
Avoidant Advice Requested
: "Do avoidants ever apologize…?"
12 posts
#5
Personal Growth
: "Blocking my avoidant was the best thing I’ve done for myself"
5 posts
#6
FA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+
: "They don’t love themselves"
4 posts
#7
Later Stage Healing - Your Own Inner Work
: "An observation: in research-grade AT (not "Attached" or online coach pop AT) many dumpees here won't be classified as preoccupied... but many dumpers would! (A lot of DMM info here)"
2 posts
#8
From FA’s Perspective
: "When I hurt"
2 posts
#9
DA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+
: "Covid Relationship"
2 posts
#10
From DA’s Perspective
: "What I learned this weekend talking to anxiously attached people stuck on their avoidant"
1 post
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Last updated: August 25, 2026