r/AvoidantBreakUps is a subreddit with 36k members. The community frequently discusses avoidant, breakup, struggling, relationship, and ex, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, fa breakup, avoidant advice requested, da breakup, and fa breakup - ltr 1 year+.
A support community for those recovering from a breakup with a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Avoidant
166 posts
#2
Breakup
136 posts
#3
Struggling
72 posts
#4
Relationship
57 posts
#5
Ex
40 posts
#6
Advice
29 posts
#7
Discard
23 posts
#8
Moveon
16 posts
#9
Feelings
16 posts
#10
Love
14 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Vent/Rant
: "Avoidants don’t know loyalty"
16 posts
#2
FA Breakup
: "Avoidant timing to break up is pure perfection"
12 posts
#3
Avoidant Advice Requested
: "Do They Really Care?"
10 posts
#4
DA Breakup
: "10 months after Dismissive Avoidant discard"
9 posts
#5
FA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+
: "Advice from someone who was dealing with this last year"
2 posts
#6
Later Stage Healing - Your Own Inner Work
: "I miss him it’s been 2 years"
2 posts
#7
From DA’s Perspective
: "What’s the possibility they will last?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Yearly
+26k members(282.2%)
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Last updated: October 23, 2026