r/AvoidantBreakUps is a subreddit with 34k members. The community frequently discusses avoidant, breakup, struggling, relationship, and ex, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, avoidant advice requested, da breakup, fa breakup, and later stage healing - your own inner work.
A support community for those recovering from a breakup with a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Avoidant
166 posts
#2
Breakup
136 posts
#3
Struggling
72 posts
#4
Relationship
57 posts
#5
Ex
40 posts
#6
Advice
29 posts
#7
Discard
23 posts
#8
Moveon
16 posts
#9
Feelings
16 posts
#10
Love
14 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Vent/Rant
: "Social Media Competition?"
23 posts
#2
Avoidant Advice Requested
: "Will and if so when will she reach out?"
9 posts
#3
DA Breakup
: "Blind-sided by break up text on day 6 of his Europe trip. Now he is playing weird digital games on WhatsApp. Am I crazy?"
7 posts
#4
FA Breakup
: "Genuinely do these people even feel guilt?"
5 posts
#5
Later Stage Healing - Your Own Inner Work
: "One year on…"
3 posts
#6
Personal Growth
: "They weren’t the first thing on my mind this morning"
2 posts
#7
From FA’s Perspective
: "FA’s - what triggers you to go back?"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Yearly
+26k members(298.6%)
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Last updated: October 3, 2026