r/AvoidantBreakUps is a subreddit with 25k members. The community frequently discusses avoidant, breakup, struggling, relationship, and ex, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, personal growth, da breakup, fa breakup, and later stage healing - your own inner work.
A support community for those recovering from a breakup with a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Avoidant
166 posts
#2
Breakup
136 posts
#3
Struggling
72 posts
#4
Relationship
57 posts
#5
Ex
40 posts
#6
Advice
29 posts
#7
Discard
23 posts
#8
Moveon
16 posts
#9
Feelings
16 posts
#10
Love
14 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Vent/Rant
: "we are not broken, we’re idiots"
26 posts
#2
Personal Growth
: "What I realized today."
15 posts
#3
DA Breakup
: "Don’t ask your DA ex for closure"
14 posts
#4
FA Breakup
: "Does anyone else get random flashbacks that are just gut wrenching"
12 posts
#5
Later Stage Healing - Your Own Inner Work
: "There's nothing noble about letting someone destroy your mental health"
3 posts
#6
Avoidant Advice Requested
: "Do avoidants actually come back?"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Yearly
+20k members(380.5%)
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Last updated: May 30, 2026