r/AvoidantBreakUps is a subreddit with 28k members. The community frequently discusses avoidant, breakup, struggling, relationship, and ex, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, da breakup, fa breakup, personal growth, and avoidant advice requested.
A support community for those recovering from a breakup with a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Avoidant
166 posts
#2
Breakup
136 posts
#3
Struggling
72 posts
#4
Relationship
57 posts
#5
Ex
40 posts
#6
Advice
29 posts
#7
Discard
23 posts
#8
Moveon
16 posts
#9
Feelings
16 posts
#10
Love
14 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Vent/Rant
: "Came across my avoidant ex on Hinge…"
36 posts
#2
DA Breakup
: "Reconciling with an avoidant, a cautionary tale a year out (very long)"
18 posts
#3
FA Breakup
: "Funny how avoidants think the world pauses & your life pauses while they go off to figure their minds out"
13 posts
#4
Personal Growth
: "How to Spot an Avoidant on a First Date – The Less Obvious Tell-Tale Signs"
12 posts
#5
Avoidant Advice Requested
: "Common themes in Avoidant behavior. Please add to the list!"
5 posts
#6
DA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+
: "Wasted 3 years"
3 posts
#7
AMA
: "I'm an FA and I've been lurking here for quite some time. AMA."
2 posts
#8
From FA’s Perspective
: "Fearful Avoidant here…"
1 post
#9
Poll
: "Did your avoidant ex come back, and if so, when?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AvoidantBreakUps
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+22k members(345.0%)
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Last updated: July 4, 2026