r/AvoidantBreakUps is a subreddit with 30k members. The community frequently discusses avoidant, breakup, struggling, relationship, and ex, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, fa breakup, da breakup, avoidant advice requested, and personal growth.
A support community for those recovering from a breakup with a Fearful or Dismissive Avoidant
Popular Topics in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Avoidant
166 posts
#2
Breakup
136 posts
#3
Struggling
72 posts
#4
Relationship
57 posts
#5
Ex
40 posts
#6
Advice
29 posts
#7
Discard
23 posts
#8
Moveon
16 posts
#9
Feelings
16 posts
#10
Love
14 posts
Flair Used in r/AvoidantBreakUps
#1
Vent/Rant
: "1 year post discard: my unconventional advice."
36 posts
#2
FA Breakup
: "ignoring"
18 posts
#3
DA Breakup
: "DA ex reached out after two years"
18 posts
#4
Avoidant Advice Requested
: "I think there’s only one type that can get an FA obsessed…"
12 posts
#5
Personal Growth
: "No Contact has worked for me"
9 posts
#6
Later Stage Healing - Your Own Inner Work
: "Dating again, & I feel sad"
3 posts
#7
DA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+
: "No interest in dating anymore, two years out from DA discard"
2 posts
#8
Poll
: "Do you think all this advice is just “self soothing”"
1 post
#9
FA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+
: "One year later"
1 post
#10
From FA’s Perspective
: "Did he genuinely realize he wasn’t ready for a relationship, or was he slowly checking out?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Yearly
+23k members(326.6%)
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Last updated: August 2, 2026