r/BDSMAdvice is a subreddit with 487k members. The community frequently discusses kink, relationship, dom, sub, and advice, and they frequently recommend/review fiction, vendor recommendations, and books.
A warm, diverse, inclusive group of friendly, knowledgeable, kinky people. Here to provide assistance, education & relationship advice.
If you're looking for graphic content, or overtly sexual material, we're not the place for you.
Have an issue in your kinky relationship? Want to know more about a specific technique? Think you have a fetish, but don't know what to call it?
You're not alone. Ask us.
Popular Topics in r/BDSMAdvice
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Kink
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Relationship
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Dom
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Sub
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Advice
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New
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Communication
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Scene
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Dominance
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Bdsm
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Products Discussed in r/BDSMAdvice
Fiction
8 reviews
#1
R. E. Hargrave
5.0★ from 1 review
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M. Never
5.0★ from 1 review
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Red Phoenix
5.0★ from 1 review
Vendor Recommendations
6 reviews
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Twisted Leather UK
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#2
Captive Collars
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Leather Delights
5.0★ from 1 review
Books
3 reviews
#1
Anneke Jacob
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Toni Bentley
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Anne Rice
4.0★ from 1 review
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Last updated: June 10, 2026