r/ADHD_partners is a subreddit with 79k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses partner, adhd, struggling, dx, and struggle.
This is a support group for those who share their lives with an ADHD partner. We aim to help validate, educate and encourage one another as we navigate the challenges that come with an ADHD-impacted relationship. Here you can ask questions, share tips & tricks or let off steam in our Weekly Vent thread.
Popular Themes in r/ADHD_partners
#1
Advice Requests
: "Need some advice, how do I get rid of the feeling that they respect other people's ideas, opinions, and feelings more then mine? I felt i was going crazy before finding here..."
19 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "9 years in, she's finally getting treatment, but im tired and checked out"
16 posts
Popular Topics in r/ADHD_partners
#1
Partner
: "Partner unable to complete household chores"
29 posts
#2
Adhd
: "Adhd Communication Styles?"
28 posts
#3
Struggling
26 posts
#4
Dx
: "Partner (Dx) not replying to my texts"
15 posts
#5
Struggle
10 posts
#6
Tired
7 posts
#7
Partner Issues
: "Getting them to talk"
7 posts
#8
Communication
: "ADHD Communication Styles?"
6 posts
#9
Frustrating
5 posts
#10
Boyfriend
5 posts
Flair Used in r/ADHD_partners
#1
Support/Advice Request
: "Do they get worse over time?"
53 posts
#2
Peer Support/Advice Request
: "Do you ever feel like you can never fully relax around your ADHD partner?"
43 posts
#3
Discussion
: "How fooled were you by your partner's mask?"
15 posts
#4
Question
: "Are the superficial ADHD Instagram reels and TikToks impacting your life?"
15 posts
#5
Weekly Vent Thread
: "::Weekly Vent Thread::"
11 posts
#6
Weekly Former Partners Thread
: "::Weekly Former Partners Thread::"
11 posts
#7
Weekly Victory/Success Thread
: "::Weekly Victory/Success Thread::"
11 posts
#8
Sharing Positivity
: "Positive things of having an ADHD partner"
6 posts
#9
Education/Information
: "What do they mean when they use words?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/ADHD_partners
Yearly
+21k members(36.3%)
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Last updated: September 9, 2026