r/DeadBedrooms
570k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 570k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels and therapist recommendations, and the most common flair used is vent, advice welcome, seeking advice, support only, no advice, positive progress post, and success story.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less and one or both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds and libido levels to come together for community & support. Comments are to be delivered with compassion and tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules and community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Therapist Recommendations
1 review
#1
BetterHelp
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "I was watching Modern Family tonight and was reminded just how dead my bedroom really is"
77 posts
#2
Seeking Advice
: "Being a HLF is making me resent other women"
23 posts
#3
Support Only, No Advice
: "He’s leaving"
18 posts
#4
Positive Progress Post
: "We're getting a divorce"
8 posts
#5
Success Story
: "I found the “cure” to my deadbedroom FINALLY."
5 posts
#6
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "I did it"
5 posts
#7
Trigger Warning!
: "Life is unfair. I had a rude awakening. My life is beautifully destroyed."
4 posts
#8
Support and Advice Welcome
: "I have now become ....the LL one??"
3 posts
#9
Trigger warning- adultery
: "Tomorrow"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+63k members(12.5%)
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Last updated: June 11, 2026