r/DeadBedrooms
574k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 574k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is vent, advice welcome, seeking advice, support only, no advice, support and advice welcome, and relationship ended or ending.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less and one or both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds and libido levels to come together for community & support. Comments are to be delivered with compassion and tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules and community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "wife confirmed what i've been dreading. She doesn't desire me"
69 posts
#2
Seeking Advice
: "Dead bedroom & kinks"
19 posts
#3
Support Only, No Advice
: "I wish I didn’t have to beg my husband to have sex with me."
17 posts
#4
Support and Advice Welcome
: "Something I recently heard in therapy that I think a lot of us hear can benefit from."
15 posts
#5
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "My wife is struggling to cope with getting divorced"
10 posts
#6
Success Story
: "An early morning quickie out of nowhere"
7 posts
#7
Positive Progress Post
: "Six years ago I made this account."
4 posts
#8
Trigger warning- adultery
: "My husband has ignored me for 8+ years now my ex has reached out."
3 posts
#9
NO DMs. Violations will be reported.
: "Got turned on by lady waxing me"
3 posts
#10
Give Me Constructive Criticism
: "I don’t understand why more men don’t see that porn is interfering in their sex life. Why do they work so hard to fight for their right to porn?"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+64k members(12.5%)
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Last updated: July 2, 2026