r/DeadBedrooms
593k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 593k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is seeking advice, vent, advice welcome, support and advice welcome, support only, no advice, and relationship ended or ending.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less & one/both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds & libido levels to come together for community & support. Constructive comments should be delivered with compassion & tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules & community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Seeking Advice
: "LL wife wants to divorce because I've watched porn?"
36 posts
#2
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "Im losing interest in my LL spouse."
26 posts
#3
Support and Advice Welcome
: "My wife said she isn’t willing to meet my desires… even though she did when dating"
16 posts
#4
Support Only, No Advice
: "Gods I miss sex."
9 posts
#5
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "Just wanted to say goodbye and thank you"
5 posts
#6
Positive Progress Post
: "The Covid Era and Dead Bedrooms"
5 posts
#7
Trigger warning- adultery
: "This you?"
2 posts
#8
Seeking Advice- From HL
: "Has anybody recovered from DB and their relationship has been repaired?"
2 posts
#9
NO DMs. Violations will be reported.
: "I forgot guys out there actually crave sex"
1 post
#10
Success Story
: "What they won’t do some one else will. M 28 had to move on with some one that was more of my type."
1 post
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+73k members(14.1%)
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Last updated: October 2, 2026