r/DeadBedrooms
587k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 587k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is seeking advice, vent, advice welcome, support and advice welcome, support only, no advice, and relationship ended or ending.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less & one/both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds & libido levels to come together for community & support. Constructive comments should be delivered with compassion & tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules & community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Seeking Advice
: "Would this be an unfair request?"
43 posts
#2
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "Resentment happens!"
36 posts
#3
Support and Advice Welcome
: "Still nothing"
12 posts
#4
Support Only, No Advice
: "I thought my husband was going to initiate"
10 posts
#5
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "Finally did it. I’m out."
4 posts
#6
Success Story
: "Sad that this made me so happy"
3 posts
#7
Positive Progress Post
: "We found out why she doesn't like sex"
3 posts
#8
Seeking Advice- From HL
: "Jealousy"
3 posts
#9
NO DMs. Violations will be reported.
: "He doesn't even get hard"
2 posts
#10
Trigger warning- adultery
: "Where do I go when I’m done trying? DMs open"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+70k members(13.6%)
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Last updated: August 30, 2026