r/DeadBedrooms
596k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 596k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is seeking advice, vent, advice welcome, support only, no advice, support and advice welcome, and give me constructive criticism.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less & one/both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds & libido levels to come together for community & support. Constructive comments should be delivered with compassion & tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules & community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Seeking Advice
: "Man flirted with me. Told husband. Now I'm sad."
22 posts
#2
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "Bedroom Goggles"
16 posts
#3
Support Only, No Advice
: "I think I’m officially done trying"
7 posts
#4
Support and Advice Welcome
: "Crying in bed next to the love of my life"
6 posts
#5
Give Me Constructive Criticism
: "Do I really have zero impact on when/if they want sex?"
1 post
#6
Success Story
: "Teach young people to seek sexual compatibility!"
1 post
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+76k members(14.5%)
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Last updated: October 14, 2026