r/DeadBedrooms
582k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 582k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is seeking advice, vent, advice welcome, support and advice welcome, support only, no advice, and relationship ended or ending.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less and one or both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds and libido levels to come together for community & support. Comments are to be delivered with compassion and tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules and community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Seeking Advice
: "If you’re willing to leave your partner because of a dead bedroom, do you really love them?"
59 posts
#2
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "I don’t think dead bedrooms are about sex"
41 posts
#3
Support and Advice Welcome
: "Has anyone had to adjust to the idea of an open relationship?"
17 posts
#4
Support Only, No Advice
: "Anyone else extremely jealous"
10 posts
#5
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "I did it. We're separated."
7 posts
#6
Seeking Advice- From HL
: "Had a conversation about one sided pleasure"
6 posts
#7
Positive Progress Post
: "We finally had sex!"
4 posts
#8
Give Me Constructive Criticism
: "Dead bedroom over contempt"
2 posts
#9
Success Story
: "How I saved my relationship by overcoming my fetish"
1 post
#10
Trigger warning- adultery
: "I fucked up…help"
1 post
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+68k members(13.2%)
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Last updated: August 7, 2026